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hotsoup16 28-01-2008 07:26 PM

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Time will tell. Give yrself a few tears with her and see how it goes abt and the same time, know her thru her deepest heart. U know what i mean

Roger Lim 28-01-2008 10:48 PM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by leeky123 (Post 2551455)
Now i am planning my 2nd trip this coming march...i have the intention to settle down with her....she is a very nice girl...i believe she can be a gd wife...but my feeling for her is still not that deep...but feeling can cultivate over time rite?

she also has the intention to be with me..she even willing to give up everything in china to follow me back to sg...

i am so confused now..

Hey, wakey!!! 2nd trip only, as if you know her for 5 years. :eek:

VanHouten 29-01-2008 03:44 AM

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Leeky123, think twice. I doubt will last long.

uiop 29-01-2008 07:13 AM

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Bro leeky123,can you please wake up your idea?!?!?! :p

regent 29-01-2008 08:32 AM

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Haha so funny, but who are we to say, if he want to gamble, let it be

mseveninch 29-01-2008 08:39 AM

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Hi bro leeky123, have a deep thought & evalute again. long distant relationship do work provided 2 person are ready to commit and sacrified for each other. Wealth is not everything in a relationship ........it's our instint and heart for each other. Give both yourself sometimes and follow your heart. Remember............nothing is a bed of roses. It needs a lot of sacrifices from both. Good luck....:)

first hole 29-01-2008 08:49 AM

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I suppose some people must experience it to learn. :D

old_yet_horny 29-01-2008 08:59 AM

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Bro TS...


三思而后行..Think 3x before u act...
Marriage is not a game and moreover... Not to offend other bros..Its a foreign bride.

Think and think hard before u act..

Good luck.:)

leeky123 29-01-2008 09:29 AM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by colins (Post 2551619)
bro leeky123, how old are you and how many relationships have you been thru? Actually when I saw your description on this nurse, it seemed that you do like her character but unsure of how you should approach the relationship. Its a little too fast to say you want to settle down with her, or with anyone else for that matter. Maybe all you want from this forum is encouragement, but then thats my feel. Unfortunately, look at the comments for your post.

Secondly, after considering that fact that you actually went to China just to visit this WL, I say that you probably still quite unsure of what you want and probably suffers from being inexperienced with prc girls. Remember, she said she'll meet you but yet it was equivalent to a set-up. How, in the first place, could you have believed her?

You probably like the nurse because she spent some time with you, she is decent compared to your WL and she is willing to be together with you. Nobody can say she is good or not, but your feeling now is just that you think she is quite 'hard-to-find' and it will be a pity to give up like that. If you dun know whether you love her, you probably aren't in love with her.

Spend a bit more time together, get to know her more and decide whether she suits you or not. Being a nurse, she can come here and thru a conversion course, be a registered nurse here and avoid being a liability to you. That is another plus point. However, 99% of your consideration is whether you want to spend the rest of your life with her, since its a 'settling down' decision.

Consider it very carefully bro, dun make your own horror story.

thanks bro colin for ur comment...i felt ur comment is neutral.

thanks!

Deep Blue 29-01-2008 09:33 AM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by leeky123 (Post 2551510)
ya bro...the fact is she is not a WL..makes me feel guily...i never tell her that last time i went to china was becos of looking for a WL. she comes from a decent family. She is not like those money grabbing women in china.
i am in a dilemma...i dun know i really love her anot...i feel that i only wan to find someone to settle down with...but i guess love can be cultivated over time rite?

Well, if the fact that she is not a WL makes you guilty, then go look for one WL then, perhaps it might just spice up your life. You are simply counting the chicken before the eggs hatch. You want someone to settle down with, regardless if you love her or not, getting a maid may just do the trick as well because love can be cultivated over time.

The biggest dilemma is you. There is nothing concrete in this whole event except for one moron whining for what is the next course of actions. Why don’t you buckle up and go for what you deem fit instead of bleating here for all of us know nuts about what went on between you and her. You met her, saw her, spoke to her. You think she is from a decent family, not money grabbing and non WL. Then what’s next, you already drawn an impression of her already and now you should decide what you wanna do or else continue with your WL activities then. :cool:

leeky123 29-01-2008 09:35 AM

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thanks to many bros and also boss reply to this thread...

i know there were be many opinions to this matter...some will oppose while some will give their well wishes...

i also know that i know her for not that long...as what other brothers say...gve myself sometime before i give my committment...but really bros...if u were me and u know this girl...u will also feel that u cannot give this chance a miss...

having been in the cheonging scene for some time...i feel jaded already...i believe many bros here also will be feeling the same...

i just want to start a decent relationship and get on with life....

however i will heed advices from bros here...to observe and be with her more times...i hope it works out...

will be flying in March....lets see how things goes...

minichamps1664 29-01-2008 10:05 AM

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bro pls proceed with caution. dont want your heart and wallet to get hurt ;)

have you read the other thread? http://www.sammyboyforum.com/adult-d...-love-prc.html

sammyboyfor 29-01-2008 10:11 AM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by leeky123 (Post 2552868)

however i will heed advices from bros here..

Should be "I will heed ADVICE from brothers here.

"Advice" is a non countable noun, you do not add an "s" to make it plural.

"Advice" is like "Rice". You say... "Please pass me the rice." You don't say "Please pass me the rices" because "rice", like "advice", is a non countable noun.

There are many other examples. To test your knowledge of non countable nouns, go to English Language Quiz - Countable or Non-countable Nouns (I-TESL-J) and take the test.

~|@|~ 29-01-2008 10:16 AM

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Quote:

Originally Posted by leeky123 (Post 2552868)
however i will heed advices from bros here...to observe and be with her more times...i hope it works out...

will be flying in March....lets see how things goes...

no harm trying and see how it works out. just be careful and think with your brain, not your heart (or dick). all the best ;)

hotdick69 29-01-2008 10:24 AM

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Bro Leeky..... dont think about marriage first..... if u think she really good... and she willing to give up her life in china for you.... then y not ask her to come over SG and find a job..... Nurse job in SG easy to find lah.... so at least u can really see if she is the good gal she shows you when she is in China..... staying together for a time being will be the best way to know if she is the one u want to tie the rest of the life with.... :eek:

from my experience thru chat.... alot of PRC women who are decent (as in not working as WL) are always looking for expats to get married with.... especially SG men.... cause their life will at least be better then what they have in china.... so its better for you to see carefully.... open ur eyes bigger and observe..... dont be another SG kena con by the PRC women

Just my 2 Cents hor....:D


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