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come on guys,

give him a break. there are so many gambles that we sometimes took and we don't too win all of them. dun put that girl down just because she is from China.

we too had our fall when dealing with relationship, be it overseas or local. didn't we get our own fair share of dirt spat on our faces during a bad relationship? who can guarantee his relationship is smooth sailing all the way? and that his or her idea of tackling girls is 100% fool proof?

if he can go there alone seeking for an ex WL whom he got to know, i'm pretty sure he is of mature age and has seen enough. forget the eat salt more than eat rice stuff here.

to TS, what i can say is. do what you think is right. only you know how she treat you and how you felt for her. as bystanders, our bros here are maybe trying to prevent you from getting conned which is not a bad thing afterall.

best of luck!

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A relationship with an SG girl has a 40% chance of surviving long term.

A relationship with a PRC girl has a 0.0001% chance of surviving more than 2 years.

The choice is obvious. :rolleyes:

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Wahh statistics also out liao.. Boss, u did survey ah?

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thanks bro!
;)

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u R the great one.;)

yes...we have calling almost everyday to each other on the phone ...

ps: phone bill very cho

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bro sammy...we cant one bamboo overturn the whole boat...

its just unfair...dun tell me 7 billion (approximately figure..i dun really know how many china women are there..just estimate) r ALL bad???

abit too extreme.

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There are only 6 billion humans on the face of this earth. :rolleyes:

I'm not saying that all PRC girls are bad. However, what I am saying is that those who go all out to woo Singapore men DEFINITELY have ulterior motives.

Let's get real here... are Singapore men more charming than their PRC counterparts?.. are Singapore men all better looking?.. do they have better skills in bed? bigger dicks? You know the answer.

What SG men do have is more $$$ and any girl who chooses a man for money is not going to make a good wife.

You guys have to learn to work things out with your brains and not with your dickheads.:eek:

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Once bitten, second still not scare?? Too short a period to invest in relationship. If really wan. Get a PI to to some ground work.

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The above had answered the question on why PRC girls choose Sg men instead of their own local men :D

Chances of long term relationship & true love is very slim if you are just an average income earners.

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I think for some people Love is such a rare commodity that when they think they get it, the head cannot think properly liao.

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It is possible to find true love in life provided you are not looking for a fucked up character woman.

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Dear Bro Leeky123,

I spent more than 18 years moving around China - way before Shenzhen, Dongguan, Zhuhai, Shanghai became popular places to Singaporeans...

Just pardon me if I will say that all you have in your mind is this nurse from China and nothing else. You are not confused but rather you are already defused or detached from the ideas from other bros, simply because she came to your help and treated you well in China. Moreover, both of you talked over the phone everyday.

There is a very important point in here : "All bros who posted their comments are the one that have concerns for you - they care for you. Whether they are againist or for your idea with this China girl."

We have seen happy marriages between Singaporean and Chinese but yet we have heard or witness even more broken marriages or conned situtaions between Singaporean and Chinese.

Personally, I have seen more of the latter. The most common is that many Singaporeans have been conned to buy apartments in China - Shenzhen, Shanghai, Chongqing etc, but under the name of the wife (who usually claimed that Chinese can buy apartment eaiser under the China Law). Kids are registered as Chinese Citizen in their maiden province. In the end, what does the Singaporean gets? Money goes in and never come back.

On the other hand, those good ones are usually married to Singaporeans from above average families doing businesses and they live comfortably here. They brought up their kids well. There is one point here - later the in-laws (Father, Mother, Brother, Sister, Uncle, Auntie, Nephew, Niece) will come along.

Both of you come form different cultures and different backgrounds. Speaking different Lingo and having different habits. So, please take your time to study this matter.

By the way, there is a saying "不要为了一棵树而放弃整个森林". You still have a choice.

Happy reading..............

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To marry a foreign wife (including Msia girls) ...you have to be financially strong & good spending power at the minimum.

If you are just making enough to eat & no solid saving.. its better not to find foreign women as life partners.
Most foreign women are not willingly to slog with poor S'pore men :cool: especially those not educated ones.

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agree most foreign women are not willingly to slog with poor S'pore men...include local too. If a women came from good life style they will not slog. Sight, men must have money, women must have beauty.

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What ever happened to virtue? :eek: Kidding just could not resist it.

All the same in any relationship go into it with both eyes open. Lying to yourself won't help.

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Whatever you do, don't meet the parents first.

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So fast meet parents after justing knowing each other :cool:

Direct flight to Chongqing cost around $1,100 (to & fro) peak period :eek:
excluding hotel accomodation.

A failed relationship means a hugh financial losses but if you are an ah seah kia than money no problem lah :D

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btw, whether the gal is WL or not, how to 'test' are they are truth to you?
1) one say you no $$, see what theri reaction?
2) one say you no feeling towards here...

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I lied to my Chongqing girl that mi did not receive any bonus for 2007 so no money to remit to her :cool: ....
she ask mi not to call her again :(

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bro, how much was the amt? that's cool anyway, if you ask me.

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She was asking SGD $1,000 from mi ... not a cent less :eek:

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most ppl hv failed relationships.
sometimes u put yr heart in,sometimes u r there jz 2 playplay.
whichever the case,i believe that in any type of cross boundary relationship a lot more effort needs 2 be put in.
although sometime the partner is not beside u 4 a long period of time,it k be a more mental torture if u hv alrdy put yr heart in2 tis relationship.
there hv been a lot of negative reports in the media abt prc gals,but it is easilier said than done.
wat goes ard comes ard.
if u r sincere 2 ppl,it shall be return in 1 way or another.
if u harbour bad/evil thoughts in the 1st place,then ............
nw a days,i hv become veri nagging.
keep repeating myself................

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Assuming it is confirmed not a WL. It is tough maintaining such a long distance relationship .... you really dont know what she is doing there .... obviously over here, you are fooling around, so she can do, and you wont know :eek:

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In life sometimes we must take risks :D only then we will know :p

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so sorry to hear that, by the way, how much have you remitted to her already?

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mi have not remit a single cent to her yet... only spend some money on her body during her 2 months stay in S'pore :cool:

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haha, no love lost then! cheapest way to find out who she is...

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bro, mind i ask. in what aspect from you did she ask for your money? obvious there must be somekind of reason from her to ask you to remit money.. husband/wife relationship? bf/gf?

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Money is the bane of all relationships..Even if she is a local still got SPG and money digger mah

Juz dun regret your decisions can liao... which of us never spend money on our ex-girlfriends.