Can u fuck n forget?
 

There is a saying that men see sex as a physical act. Ideally, it should have the emotional components to feel like good sex. However, it can happen as a purely physical event. Most women cannot, the difference is the ability to compartmentalise feelings.

So are u the type who can fuck n forget?
1. Yes sure! Visit FL, complete transaction and leave
2. No sometimes I get entagled in messy situations with FLs

In a different situation where the woman is not a FL, but a friend or a colleague, would u use them for sex then fuck n forget?

Is comparrmentalising feelings helping you achieve the "fuck n forget"?

Please share your views. Thanks

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i think women is better in fuck & forget.. especially fl/wl..;)

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It is known to be rational & self protect when u visited FL for fucking svc, better to fuck, pay, forget, dun have any string attached or bear any responsibility. But, some brothers prefer to make "friend" with those FL first, striked some conversation with them b4 fucking, maybe to develop some chemistry first, have some emotion bond, then the sex can bring to next level, not only physically satisfy but also emotional satisfy, maybe it is called to have "gfe" feeling. Human is a very self contradict creature, guy hoped that fuck, pay, forget, but at the same time hope to get some good "gfe" feeling from the FL, WL, ML, so bring them to watch movies, shopping, makan b4 fucking, then get yourself emotional attached or "fall in love" with those cheap slut.

Recently, had a tragic local new abt a 39 yrs old local Chinese man slashed his bed ridden father then jumped down from his Geylang East flat, her wheelchair bound mother just watched his son jumped down, helpless to stop him......so sad, die at the young age of 39. According to his father said, his son last time is a top insurance agent with car, high pay, then he knew a Thai whore from bar, he "fall in love" with her, so smitten by her, listened to whatever she said, even gave her his whole saving, in the end the Thai whore dumped him when he was penniless. It is a big blow to him, then he suffered from depression & in and out of imh many times, in the end jobless quite a long time.......then in the end his precious life also ended in his own hand. Feel sorry for his family members & him, he "fall in love" for the wrong person, a Thai whore in a bar, yet he took serious in this relationship. Whereas, the Thai whore is just a mercanary & merciless cheap whore, she can differentiate that this so called relationship is just a transaction, she gave him great sex, gfe feeling, romance feeling yet she managed dun fall in love with him, or else she will be very tired & emotion drained if she get serious with every man, she know it is just lust, and men cannot be trusted, better squeeze more money as possible from every man she met when she is still youthful & attractive. So what can we say? The guy is silly, naive, believe that he can find true love from a bar girl? Or the bar girl is street smart, more rational, they r exposed to many different type of men, learn see the true color of guy at a very young age, so immune to those guy "affection".

We r more naive, less street wise or exposure compared to those foreigners whore coming here to work. Like PRC whore, in china they already worked as a prostitutes at young age of 17, 18. How many men they face in each day? Different more cunning & complicated guy she has experienced b4, they r trained to be invincible. They r not as simple, sweet, demure as we see them, dun fool by their appearance & trick.

To fuck, pay, forget is just a self protection talisman especially for those fresh cheongster. Really, cannot afford to get serious with those FL, WL, or else u will get hurt, worse end up in imh as mental illness medicine cannot really completely cure a patient only help to control his illness, preventing from deterioration. Or else the patient won't commit suicide in the end.

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I completely agree with Bro Dyelook opinion, can tell u r senior cheongster, old bird leh:D;)

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Think for man to f&f is when they have cheated many times by someone close to them b4.

*Wow the way u reply same as "someone "leh..
login 2 accounts to post not so ez lolz

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fuck i'll surely forget but making love is a different story..:p

refering to?:cool:

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Definitely not u :p
Want to know who ?

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you not 1st day know me lah... i very kpo de..:p
but if its your 2nd darling then i dont wanna know..:D

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Seriously i dunno u that well lolz
I can pm u to tell u :D

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Sis, close to 90% of the guys in sbf will not get into messy situation with a Fl or Wl.. and if the ger is a friend or a colleague den it will naturally becum a FB status..

There is this qns which I always ponder.. do those FB relly can fuck and forget? What is a FB relation relly like? Meet up and fuck den go hm? Hahaha those with FB pls share.. bro dyelook u haf? Heehee

Gdnite boys and gers :)

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my 1st day know me means in forum, not real life.. sorry if misleaded..:p
let me guess... femaleguest?:D

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i have 2... and they both are very f&f..
i nickname them Ah Joh & Ah Yow..:p

ps bro urgg... you forgot to say goodnite in another thread.. hehe

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With the right conditioning and in the right situation, why not? And then the question is whether you wanna do the deed with a friend or colleague... Fuck and forget is always an afterthought.

My 1 cent.

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bro it all depends on the societal surrounding.
the same school of thought does not apply to an urbanized environment.

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Some brothers visit FL after some personal problems to get some emotional comfort as well.
Now if that FL were to boost his ego by saying sweet nothings and acting like a true GF, then the brother falls into the KC trap and returns to the same FL again and again. In such a case, a downward spiral results and f&f is out of question.

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Gd morning handsome boy.

Ah joh and ah yow? Are they pretty ger? Haha

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When you grew older...tend to need more than f&f...the little bro need more love to keep awake...:)

F&F is best policy if u go for FL...:)

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Short answer: It depends on the situation.

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I guess most male will encounter both situations while the professional sex worker certainly has no emotions about it especially after a few dozen clients.

But if it involves a friend or colleague then it'll get complicated so depends if the sex was due to alcohol influence or mutual infatuation. I certainly won't F&F a friend :p

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old penniless uncle here lah..

wanna exchange your Miss Ref & Miss Wright with my Ah Joh Ah Yow?:p

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There is a degree of truth that men generally does regard sex as physical pleasure. While that by itself may apply to the majority, there are also bros who believes in love making as there is a much deeper level of connection involved.

Personally, I belong to the latter group and so I absolutely agree on the above quoted in blue.

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It kind of surprised me that someone would have written what you did.. At least for a moment, it felt like someone was there as well, knew and could relate..

Basically because that rings true for me too often, too much in my younger days..

That last straw came when my GF of 6 years saw someone else for over a year behind my back when I was serving NS..

I started to distrust love for all it was worth and avoided girls like the plague.. Often asking about how she was from mutual friends who knew us..

A year later, Anna, one of her close gfs showed me her friendster photo of my ex with a little girl.. Anna then told me how that other guy ditched my ex when he got to know she was pregnant..

My world crumbled.. I do not know if it was because of how he dumped the love of my life or was it simply because I had grieved her lost so much knowing the state she is in crushed me. Right at that moment, the pain and betrayal felt so bad I snapped emotionally..

One day, I bumped into my ex at the bank where she works. Upon seeing the changes in me, she tried to get things patched up between us but I refused.

As the years went by, she kept calling but I became someone I never thought I would be..

I would intentionally sleep around and made sure she gets to hear of my deeds.. What she doesn't know was the sex with others did nothing for me.. It was not at all pleasurable because while doing it, it was her my heart was still yearning for..

Deep within me, I wanted her more than anything else in this world.. Yet I knew, I cannot go back to where we once were.. I knew things were never going to be the same..



Though things have got better today.. Sex for me is still not as pleasurable.. This is probably why I enjoy the KC game and why I believe love-making, connects on a deeper level..

Perhaps it's just me trying to fill the void she vacant in my heart..

Nevertheless, thanks for posting what you did bro.. For a moment I didn't felt so alone in the way I feel..

TheSeeker

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throw away your ego & get her back if you wanted her so much.. or atleast give it a try and see if things is still patchable..;)

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Ts question reminded me of a samster at this section that he do not trust real love anymore. All his posts are rather negative about women. Seems that he has been cheated many times before. Therefore what he did now was to revenge or not to put in feelings in any of the gers he make love with.

by the way, im a sis.. ;)

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I don't really know if it was ego bro..

I wished it was though, because if so.. it might have been a lot easier back then to get things patched up..

When we bumped into one another again, it felt like she was no longer the person I knew her to be.. That itself was pretty harsh because I have already knew her as a simple and innocent individual..

When a patch is bound by what she wants instead of what she needs..

Be it the love making she claimed she misses or the financial security she wants..

It felt pointless right down to the core.. I didn't want to feel like a piece of meat much less her means of an escape..

Regardless, this was 14 years ago..
And nothing can be done now to make it right..

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Oh hi sis.. I am really sorry for not realising it..
I guess I dived right into the post you made and got a little carried away..

In a way, I did feel like the other bro did.. The only difference, it wasn't revenge I had in mind.. Rather, I was desperately seeking excuses, trying to evoke hate from her so I could avoid falling back in..

I did terrible things just to avoid it but she did not know it was nothing but a pretense..

Despite the pain I was put through, I would never willingly be the reason that cause her pain..

I can't accept her back knowing I may be incapable of loving her the same way I did.. Betrayed trust and all..

But still, I hope she finds her happiness..

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14years ago... hmmm... will you give it a try if its now?

damm... just hate the radio station for playing MY WAY now...

same question i hv on FB as well. I wonder what is the psychology behind it. cos its not a commercial transaction or ONS. There is a non sex connection like friendship mix in that v complex situation. Any bro to share more insight?

Hi can share how u manage ah jow and ah yow? are u friends with them? share personal info? sorry many questions

The fl has to be really good at giving gfe to trap the man. I wonder how does gfe rank as compared to physical looks of the fl.