How to get Fwbs?
 

Dear seniors

Male, 30
May i enquire on how to get fwb?
Am a introvert, prefer simple lifestyle but doesnt go pub/bar/club.
Am those kind which after work will stay at home but sometimes can keng gai at coffeeshop/void deck/friends hse till 2am.

Appreciate advices from the seniors here

Re: How to get Fwbs?
 

Tinder bro.
Try it wechat etc

Re: How to get Fwbs?
 

time to change your life.

most women prefer you having a fun lifestyle and more to yolo mindset (not every girl tho).

you can paint them a rosy picture that you're an outgoing person but within a few hours they'll usually find something that does not tally with the story.

Re: How to get Fwbs?
 

be yourself.. some woman prefer men to be themselves. well, u might even get FWB from coffeshop or your friend's house etc... there are no rules or location where you can get FWB.

Re: How to get Fwbs?
 

yolo mindset? dont think it is easy to still have a yolo mindset at 30 man.

Re: How to get Fwbs?
 

Lai~ jie help u set up tinder account

Re: How to get Fwbs?
 

Volunteer yourself! :D

Re: How to get Fwbs?
 

Lol... who knows~ if I’m on a rebound

Re: How to get Fwbs?
 

Join telegram gc .
T.me/SBFFRIEDRICEPARADISE

Mobile have telegram too . Just like whatsapp

Re: How to get Fwbs?
 

i'd beg to differ but again, why not if he's single?
he might find hobbies that he never knew he wanted and maybe even leading him out of being an introvert (some people have it in them).

but yeah i agree for most, 30 hard to yolo liao.
then again - no yolo, you'll never know what you truly want.

confusing much.

Re: How to get Fwbs?
 

At what age will most people YOLO?
there are plenty of "to try out" that probably even when reach 40 cannot fulfilled

Re: How to get Fwbs?
 

Lai wanna be my fwb?

Bro whats the group link? Cant join in cuz link invalid or what not :(

Re: How to get Fwbs?
 

Lai Simi, u're not TS! lol

Re: How to get Fwbs?
 

jie help me set up also leh :D

Re: How to get Fwbs?
 

Considering, dun know help u Liao is it 祸害人间 (bringing harm to humanity)?! Lololollll

Re: How to get Fwbs?
 

Jie is so funny 😆

Re: How to get Fwbs?
 

I'm also 29 hi-5 TS 😂

Tinder really works for finding FWB? 🤔

I look younger than 29 so it's a struggle for me I guess

Re: How to get Fwbs?
 

I can find fwb for you guys if you want to follow me go disco on Sundays afternoon. Mainly philipino. I got a few for you to choose from.

Add me in Wechat: kinectsg

Re: How to get Fwbs?
 

Join a gym or go work out yourself.

Train your speech. Go toastmasters.

Get off your butt and stop dreaming about a FWB when you got nothing exciting to offer to the ladies.

Re: How to get Fwbs?
 

OkCupid, tinder, CMB. Sign up for all and chat with girls. Go out with them. Report back when you have a date. I will walk you through the next steps.

Re: How to get Fwbs?
 

First you need to have female friends.

Re: How to get Fwbs?
 

from my experience, be direct and firm . mix it abit of seriousness , maturity and fun . for me usually takes a day of talking la. abit back and forth and should seal the deal.

Re: How to get Fwbs?
 

I can find fwb for you guys if you want to follow me go disco on Sundays afternoon. Mainly philipino.

I'm looking for muscular guys with high sex drive also. Got a sexy lady friend who is finding muscular guy.

Add me in Wechat: kinectsg

Re: How to get Fwbs?
 

Sorry to crash into your thread TS. Does getting a FwB has a high chance of converting them to a long term relationship?

Re: How to get Fwbs?
 

According to statistics its about 32.185783% chance.

Seriously, why this question?

It all depends on how you and the FWB interacts.

A relationship is not just you want and that's it.
The other party will have to also want it too right?
Duh.

Re: How to get Fwbs?
 

Tinder user pool mainly young one. I want to go for mature women like in their 40s, but ended up chatting with those in 20s, can't really click with too young or people my age(20s), so how effective tinder is it varies. But if TS is into young girls can give it a try.

Nice of you but may I ask are the ladies there mostly domestic workers?

Re: How to get Fwbs?
 

Uuugh! Tell me about it, I keep getting XDD / same age as me. Unable to have proper conversations but keep asking what am I wearing... Where are the older mature men!? Who knows how to ‘fish’

CMB takes too long to match, OKC also crowd too young! Scout is full of foreigners..

Actually what happened to good old fashion “can I have your no.?” In real life situation, check no ring, check she / he alone den approach.. instead of swipe here and there.

How did guys get girls last time when there wasn’t any apps?!

Re: How to get Fwbs?
 

Haha, I too would love to learn more about the art of finding a fwb, or "fishing"

Definitely agree with Livie that Skout is full of foreigners. From what I can tell, they mostly look like domestic helpers as well.

Coming from an inexperienced amateur myself, I don't understand the "what are you wearing" part as I don't also use that in my convos. Didn't know that was a trending question from the other end :rolleyes: