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If you do fall in love with a FL, and she quits and resumes a non WL life then maybe huh? Can be Xiao San? |
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Interesting here are some understandings of it
http://www.ibtimes.com/chinese-mistr...iaosan-1422930 http://thinkingchinese.com/xiao-san-...ing-them-small |
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- dont involve money, one of them is rich, another is poor - they dont want me to divorce, content of being my little three, one of them even wanna break up with me as she doesnt want to ruin my marriage, as she felt I lose too much. - agree lessens on sex on my part but just happy to have a companion who understand me |
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its when the FB becomes 小三 and move into companion stage GF, the sex dwindles, and the issues start
Emotions, money, status these are the things that come up again and again Think I need a new FB, need to refresh the term FB. |
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小三,是通过互联网流行起来的一个词,是对第三者的蔑称。 第三者在中国法律上的含义是指背弃道德三观,凭自己个人喜好,肆意插足他人情感生活,破坏原有夫妻、情侣关 系的人。 It is as simple as that. By definition, no legal binding is needed for such definition :D |
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Good info about this term!
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Well I am not here to argue over the terms as different individual perception of things are different depending on the environment he/she is in. Cheers. |
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No doubt about it in most case all law will just lump this into one, so long as the woman at home cry foul, you will sure end up the looser. At that instant it doesn't matter if she is a FB or she is a 小三 because she is the one outside your married life. The only difference is 小三 distinctly only refer to those man that are married where as single man can easily call it GF, FB, Lover, etc .... you name it. |
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Would like to share my story here and possibly look for advice from more experienced Bros here.
I'm married with kids, my kids are the love of my life. My love for my wife has dimished since ages ago and our kids only reason we are still holding up. But still, we have respect for each other and I've never had an affair before, even when I was not getting sex from my wife. But recently, I met up with a friend of a friend over a group dinner, I've met her before and I found her to be very attractive then. But I didn't approached her or contact her for one whole year until the group dinner. We clicked again during the dinner and I found myself attracted to her all over again. After the dinner, I asked her out alone and we ended up kissing and petting. That was the start of the whole thing, over the course of 2 week, I found myself getting more and more infatuated with her to the extend I have the urge to meet her every moment I have free. I know this is not going to work out because I'll never divorce my wife and make my kids go through single parenthood, but I cannot help myself from thinking about her and I truly feel that I am in love with her. Any Bros can advise me on what to do? |
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Are you prepared, when you got caught, to live with these outcomes? a. Hurting your wife, your children, your family, your wife's family, your faith?, your reputation. b. Losing your children's respect of you (even if you don't divorce your wife) c. Losing half of your wealth at your age + losing child custody (if you got divorced) Marriage is a contract solely built in order to protect the well-being of the children (read: including the mother who takes care of them). And in Singapore, regardless of which party who broke the contract, the only outcome is that the man pays. If somehow, you managed to deal with those outcomes. The next set of problems would arise: a. Would the woman you had an affair with, see you as a lesser of a man once you lose half of your wealth? Judge her character well enough. b. Would the woman you had an affair with, accept the social stigma that she would be seen as a home-wrecker? Say if you got caught, and you both agreed to stay married for the sake of the children. Would you able to live with the fact that you would always be held hostage by your wife for your mistakes? All I could tell you is that, a scorned woman is an evil entity you don't want to deal with. This could be either your wife or your fling or BOTH. |
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