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What would u do if ur gf or wife to be betrayed u becuz of money n break off with u once bt came back to u?

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Once Bitten Twice Shy
Twice Bitten Never Try
Thrice Bitten...Go And Die!

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Just hand her a kite ! ask her go far far away so she can fly it ! Why be in a dilemma ! the answer is obvious !

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If you have no money then should be ok. You get to fuck for free :D

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Bro... Coincidentally, you spoke my mind... Kinda facing the same situation as you...

I understand for some bros is rather straight forward. Just dump and move on but for my case, I think I love her too deep and may just overlook it and let it pass... I'm still looking for an answer deep down inside my heart... :(

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guys, ask yourself this questions :

1. do you really love her?
2. can you truly forget and forgive?
3. can you take it if she hurts you again?

be truthful with your answers and you will know which step to take next.

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Ask urself....are u able to stop eating outside? Leopard never change its spots wan.... Dun be a sucker twice...

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for me, i am also facing a similar problem but there is no 3rd party. wife wants a split because i don't make enough $$ for her. feels like shit now.

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T/S & Bro Cyberod ... well if the roles were reversed ... do you think she'll forgive you & take you back?

You can act on your feelings ... but b prepared if it history repeats itself in one way or another ... Bro Pilot Preceda has a good point.

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Just move on! If she did it once, it will happen again no matter what.

Everyone has a brain unless you say that her IQ is below 60 and she definitely knows what she is doing when she did that to you and a choice to do so. Knowing you will forgive her, that is why she comes back. Do you want to be manipulate by her and accept her?

I was burnt and never will again. I only need to be taught once, not twice!

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Forgive n forget bro.. Meanwhile u can also eat outside! Try new meat! Lol...

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let go and never look back ...

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Well, wasn't expecting an answer like this. But let me ask you and TS this, does she love you the same way you love her too?
If a person loves you, she won't even think of that idea (betraying you because of money and break off with you), much less doing that.

If it happens once, it can happen again.
If she has done it once, she'll do it again.

Who says lightning don't strike at the same spot twice? Who says you can't fuck at the same hole again? Sex and lightning have so much in common...

Also, think about why would she want to come back. Because she knows you are forgiving and you love her? Because you are different than before?

As much as it is the most painful thing to do, the bros here are right.

Don't accept her back, turn around, walk away and let it go. Don't even think about going back to her. Forget it!

It's her mistake, she deserves to learn it the hard way. Not everything can end like a Jack Neo scandal.
I can tell you even Mrs Neo would probably be thinking, once bitten twice shy.

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TS, u forgive her once, you'll find urself forgiving her over n over again. Would like like to go thru such things over n over again?

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This is life....what to do..:(