To all ex cheongster..
 

How's ur life now? How u quit? Are you married and live happily ever after? Share ur thoughts.

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I quit cheonging after I started a relationship with an ex-wl. I'm divorced and plan to get married with her. After quiting cheonging, I do not need to worry of getting std/hiv or get caught by ppl I know. Furthermore, when cheonging I felt guilty and emptiness, now no more as I have more spare time to fulfill my targets in my life. As she knows all my past history, same for her too, we do not need to hide or lie anything. We both have a sigh of relief as we can be truthful as much as we can to each other.

TS, are u planning to quit as well?

This is interesting. This is just like saying: I quit smoking as now my body can auto generates nicotine. :o

Re: To all ex cheongster..
 

Done it a few times. 1st time panick. soon becomes an addiction. The more I do, the more guilt I have. Some times I feel empty. Like actually I dun really enjoy it. Dun know what the fuck I want. Care to share more if any of u have the same feeling as I have.

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hahah :D:D:D tat scenario is still harmful, as good as continue smoking.

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Like I said, got the same feeling too. If u really think of quiting, ask urself why u into this addiction. Then u may be able to get rid of it to by tackling the root cause. Good luck! :)

I think i understand what you mean... it's like you turn on the TV just want to make some noise in the air, but you don't care what the TV programme is about. :o

This is called emptiness, my friend. Some people go gambling, take drug, get drunk, ... because of emptiness. They don't really enjoy what they are doing, but they just want to do some shits to make them forget about how lonely they are.

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I do not chiong MP or FL. More of discos and ktvs.

Been years since i have been doing that.

Used to go 6 days a week and then cut to thrice a week.

Now i go once a month, i enjoy but i become more aimless in life.

At times if i am bored, i get a girl otherwise i just relax and drink my drinks, listen to music.

At times i want to do sports but no friends to do with. It has been years since i mingle with local ladies. Now at times, i just go hfj buy out and that is it.

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haven quit, but have intention, but when horny again, hard to control urge. how?

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this is like drug, once you start, hard to quit. Unless something drastic happen in your life.

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what about you TS? Have you quit?

You can check out anytime you like, but you can never leave. :)

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I did ask a WL once when we were together and ask whether she want to get married. She said no and the reason is that whilst it is all nice and in love all is well. But after getting married for a few years when one start quarrelling, she said that the guy, although will say not to worry about her past now, might start bringing up her past history during a quarrel - so the best is not to get married!!

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we all know its as tough as nails to quit, for me at least, almost impossible. i feel quilty as fuck, empty most times to go back, have a screw to feel the void.

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Nice thread! Support!