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hi brothers/sisters

We are married for coming to 5.5years and i was puzzled by what my husband said . Anyone can enlighten me on this hidden meaning.

he mentioned that he dont wish to do the ML frequently as he finds it (our ML) boring. On the other hand he likes my BJ skill and the way i do can turn him on high.

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Very simple. He had makan outside doing all the hard work, too tired to make love at home.

Most likely wants to take it easy at home and let u do all the work.

So like that he can satisfy both at home and outside.

Which man gets turn on high high at home by BJ and dun bonk the wife or gf.

Does he looks for FL or go clubs or KTV ?

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haha........yo bro sam, don say like tat la.a simple statement like tat can cause her many sleepless nite... :):)

sis don think theres any hidden meaning to it la. juz rate your own ML skill and how often is your often..........everytime do also sian de ma...i also feel abit sian doing with my gf after dating 10 yrs le........

maybe u very very gd in bj leh....lols:D

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Sis,

Actually in some aspect i agrees with your husband. I myself feels that BBBJ can sometimes be better than making love.

I like the warm feeling and the slurping sound, and i like to see the head movement and the eyes contact. It climax when i unload everything in my partner mouth though most of the time she do not wants to.

Maybe both of your making love tactics are little bit boring after so long a time, maybe you should try something new and be more adventurous in exploring new positions, new environment and perhaps even new toys? I didnt have this luxury as my partner is very conservative at this aspect but at least she does BBBJ.

hope it helps.

Superb!

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quote for truth

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sis,pls think positively la, HE IS LAZY!! :D

or u can blow until he ngeh gong gong, then u ride him la, if he dun move then u be the one to move :p
at least thats wat my OC did when i feel tired to fuck, then when she ride liao, me will auto join in the fun also ma.... :D

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Sorry to say this.....Maybe he find yr (!) a bit loose.....:o
Thats why he prefer a BJ

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I know of a few bros who only do BBBJ when they makan outside. So it doesn't mean he's ML outside and opts for BBBJ only at home.

Maybe he's into BBBJ only, both outside and at home. :p

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he means he wants to try fresh pussy

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alot of guys prefer young, fresh and tighter pussy i supposed.

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everytime feast on abalone will also get sick . thats why he prefer a change of diet . at least he is honest on what he wants and likes . you may try different avenues just let your imagination run wild . etc outdoors and in prompt to sex

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this last question- i long suspected but he totally denied.

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thanks bros and sisters,

no, ours were a very short courtship for 3 mths before this shotgun happened, so did not have ML too frequently during the preg and next 3 first years of marriage. caught him cheating behind my back. Anyway my down there is not so loose yet cos i had my child thru c sect.

Now we have sex once in a month if lucky. sometimes no sex for few months.. i high sex drive lei but often he rejects me. I dun know what was wrong with him and yes we argued over some money woes too frequently that lead us to think abt the divorce but for now the divorce is on hold. I am not sure if he did eat outside or not as we seldom spend time together nowadays. And also very harder to keep track on him as he is often not at home. I felt very lousy inside upon hearing him say dun want ML , wait too often get very sianz... how often do u think is normal... FJ and blowjob is just enough for him if do once or twice monthly or/and nil for the next few months.
And some more i also cant see how much cum he shot inside as he prefers to shoot inside... :mad:

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Sis,

Every week at least 2 times (ML) will be consider normal. Maybe becos ur divorce is on hold and he scare u pregnant again that why dun wan to do wif u.

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Sympathised with u but from the way you had written, probably 90% getting outside. just throw some $$$ and all the girls will flock to him and some may service him like a king.

Coming home to a nagging wife will instantly kills off all kicks... but can't blame you as problem seems to fall on his side.. He isn't helping to clap at all... Wake him up before it gets too deep that you can't turn back..... sorry to say, he just did NOT care for your needs nor interest