最愛的人不是你
 

相遇太早 or not fated to be together?
Till now i still cant forget this person. Yet this person is neither my first love nor my wife.

This person last heard was married, yet after watching 那些年 images of her began to flash back. If time could be reversed, i would sieze whatever chances i had to express myself.

Maybe this is what is called 最愛的人不是你, 我真的愛妳 但永遠無法 像愛她般 愛妳 to my wife

does anyone feel that too?

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If i'm your wife... i will be very sad to know that.... :(

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so did u up her or not??? :confused:

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sad to say no

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Yup bro I agree wif u , the worst is been trying to reach her bt can't find her

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ahhh all the 'what ifs'

anyway if u did up her.. probably u may not miss her that much

but TS i am with u.. i do have someone i miss too...

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Hahahaaaa.....this is human nature for all. 得不到的永远是最好，刻骨铭心。。一旦得到，过了一段日子，也不过如此。。i suggest you hold onto this memories as it is more beautiful then the real life. Imagine, after many years apart, many things have changes..appearances, habits, character etc.

hope you enjoy this music...do up me if it bring back more memories to u..
http://www.yinyuetai.com/video/87013

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true man, maybe things have changed over the years, she no longer the same person i might know.

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maybe sometimes let things continue to live in memories are not a bad thingy. Just that dont dwell too much in it. Life goes on

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At a temple in Japan, there is a poem called "Loss" carved into the stone.

It has 3 words, but the poet has scratched them out.

You cannot read Loss, only feel it. :o;)

In relationsips and courtships, I am sure all of us have some regrets over some things we didn't do and it’s too late, just too late now. Then again, life as it is - unpredictable, if we did it then, there is no guarantee that we won't regret now. Live and let's live. ;)

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no wonder u feel wat u r feeling ... :D

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Most ppl will never felt they married the person they love most ... :eek:

Even if they really did in the first place ... they will feel otherwise after a while ... as no one can stay perfect to anyone .... especially with their constantly increasing demand over their partner ....


HAHAHAHAa ... and most of them will never show their real self ..... before marriage .... or maybe eventually they will feel that the grass opposite are greener especially when they start to come across more people outside :p

If we do not start to appreciate and be contented .............. 最愛的人 ... will never be "你"

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I understand that feeling. I met someone when I was a teenager. She is a really beautiful (to me) and nice girl. I never expressed my feelings for her as we were really young (in sec school). She died from an illness 2 years later. Till today, I still miss her. Even posted a poem here for her on her death anniversary.

You know, for all the yearning and pining, sometimes I ask myself if it's better for me to never have known this girl. Then I won't be suffering so much over so many years. I think we are stronger and more enriched in life when we have loved before. To have loved and lost is better than to have never experienced the emotions of life. Will you agree?

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haha i do agree man, even now we just sort of get in touch back but a bit weird feeling lo...

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Yup.... Regrets are always there to haunt us.... But nevertheless, still have to move on.... Need to jump back sometimes .. haha....


2centsworth - thats quite sad to hear... It is of course better to know, if not you will not have experience what has happened & be more stronger....

The feeling will be super weird... Just msg that girl i know yesterday... Will still feel some very werid feeling that i could not describe... overall it will just dampen your mood even further on that day... So sometimes just try to ignore & carry on... My 1 centsworth(2centsworth is copright right haha)...:)