Men wonder why they don't get sex???
 

Yesterday I was taking a drive and drove through the country. I saw A couple that arrived at their condo they had rented. The gentleman gets out and opened his ladies door. Reaches out taking her hand to help her out of the vehicle. He then pulls her to her holding her tight. Then kisses her so passionately. He then walks her to the door holding her hand. They were dressed so nice for each other to admire. I thought to myself if men treated their ladies like this I believe they wouldn't have to worry about not being satisfied sexually. Where's the chivalry anymore??? I know if my husband were to act this way towards me he would not be able to keep my hands off of him. I would want to please him in every way. You want more great sex then you guys should try this and see if things change for you. Not saying I don't give him what he needs now but I would adore him for treating me like a lady and fuck him like the bad girl he wants me to be!!! Like mmm daddy I'm all yours!!!!

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Sadly to say this only represent ur thinking but not all women thinking

Always excuses like very tired,tml need to wake up early,no mood and many more

And just for the record,the couple tat u saw maybe just the guy trying to get into the gal pant by playing mr romantice to her only! U r not sure if they are married anot isn't it? Or are you trying to tell us guys by playing mr romantice to u will sure get into ur pants?

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Morning Sis,

Of course every men would like their girl hot on bed. But not all will do that even the husband did all sorts of thing to try to get their wife to be the bad girl on bed.

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Thanks sis, I will try it but I don't drive car.

I will try this when I'm taking mrt or buses :D

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hey sis, hv u tried telling ur husband how u'd like him to act ard you? sometimes i think men need to be reminded of the little things we find sweet. easy to get carried away with work and what not you know :)

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very passionate couple you saw i must admit but what's with the daddy thing!

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Dear sis,

you do know that for ~$100, men can have confirmed sex instead of undergoing that BS :D

Yours truly
Ahpui

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If only couples can communicate effectively enough...

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And.. this doesn't happen..

http://www.divaasia.com/article/22132

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Yea!! The best seduction begins when they meet, not just in the bedroom. :)

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Ts it too general a statement to staple all women will react the same way. Some princess take it for granted that men should behave that way. But not necessary meam she need to jump on her man to give him good time.

U admire it cause in your sub conscience you crave for it. How u know it not just in thwir honeymoon period?? If u tell me now u see and witness a old cpl and i mean old one the oldman doing that for the old lady. I would agree they are indeed a loving cpl. If u tell me a angmo I believe they are trying to impress the lady. If u tell me local or mix i would say they are in their honeymoon period. How many r3alistic cpl do that in this society?? Well minority is just like the ratio on men to women in here.

We all if not all majority superficial being we crave and yield we want that n this. But when it really happen how many r3act the same??

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It's important to keep the passion alive but it's inevitable that the flames would slowly go away after spending many years together as bf/gf or husband and wife.

Here's a few scenarios that might be more plausible.




Scenario 1


I would like to imagine this would be the situation if you were to drive pass a couple who have dated 5 years, married for 5 .


The gentlemen gets out and open the ladies door. Out comes a struggling and crying baby. He takes over the baby before holding the door open for the lady.

He immediately pulls her close and holds her tight, his eyes begging for her to take over the crying baby again.

They were well dressed,well groomed and they smelled like a combination of saliva, milk and remnants of baby poo.


After they locked the car, they took a look at each other and the lady also calls the man daddy.


Wife : Daddy..... she all yours...

With that, the wife turns and picked up the baby bag, her branded bag, and a plastic bag of stuff that could not be stuffed into the baby bag.



Scenario 2

Couple who dated for 5 married for 10.


The gentlemen gets out and open the ladies door.

Immediately the lady looks at him wide-eyed and exclaimed.

Wife : You siao ah ? today want to have sex si bo ?


The gentlemen immediately pulls her close and hugged her tight and they shared a passionate kiss immediately tasting their dinner of Tze char from the nearby hawker stall.

They were well groomed, the man just shaved his 3 day stubble in the morning. The lady was well dressed for a dinner in the neighbourhood. T-shirt and short pants.


The man waves his remote in a James bond manner and lock the car and the lady calls him daddy.


Wife : Daddy...... the kids are still in the car staring at us.




Scenario 3

Couple who dated for 5 years, married for 30 years.


The gentlemen opened gets out and even though he was a little slow in his movement, he opened the door for the lady.

He helped her out of the car with an outstretched hand.

She stumbled a little and they laughed but he held on tight even though he himself was feeling the strain on his legs.

They kissed and their grandchildren gave a loud 'ewwwwww' in the back seat.

They were well dressed, their streaks of white hair sat neatly on their heads.


As they unloaded the car and waited for the lift, the lady calls the man daddy.


Wife : Daddy.... you still look as good as the day you swept me off my feet 35 years ago.


Husband : So we're having sex tonight ?


............

Just kidding. hahaa

Passion between couples is rather subjective. Everyone has different love language, and we express them differently.

Not opening the car door for your partner does not mean you don't love her.

It's a gentlemanly act i agree for the first few dates but end of the day, the man is not the girls' chauffeur.


I would not marry a girl who expects her door to be opened for her every time.

I don't mind dating one for a while though and i guess most of the men here think the same.


Don't mind fucking a girl who thinks she's a princess, but if your thinking of marrying one, good luck to you.

People's mother stay in Buckingham Palace also never marry princesses.


Learn something from it. :)

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Where got time do these things? It only spoil the girl.
I better spend some money on a good attitude girl n hv few CIMs in a few hrs. Finished sex still wash my laundry.

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This line... and the entire post... thumbsup! :o

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Agreed with what bro taizi said... not all woman have the same thinking as TS...

I did open door for my wife... lead her out of the car...and if entering the car, will put my hands above her head to prevent from knocking against the top part of the car... and if rain, will shelter her first etc... giving her a perk on het cheek before leaving etc... but when inside of bedroom.. is excuse like tired...no mood..menses...