Need advise with older women
 

Background: been going out with this women for 4-5 times. Im 23, shes 36. Things been going well, we enjoyed when going for dates. Been texting and all those typical stuffs. Today when i texted her what are her plans. She said, im going for a lunch date. I casually ask with ur friends? She said, my friends set me up on a blind date.
Need advise. Should i just back off? I reply to her by saying ohh okay. Have a gd time. And asked hows the date went. She replied, ok la..how should i react?

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lets nature take it course. in the end how do u wan from this ...
sex or bgr ?

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I am serious with her. I cant just tell her straight forward that i like her at the state right now.

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like means like

whats wrong ?

if u like just tell her lo

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Young man, ask yourself these questions: how u see ur relationship with her? A friend or .....? How far will u think it will go? Is Age a problem on your side?

Once u answer these questions, u will know what to do. Ok for a Blind date, does not mean it will work out for her and the blind date. Get more info from her before u decide. You never know how it will turn out.

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living @ jurong area?

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Maybe you should just tell her straight? :o

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In t first place, if you wooing her, n she accept, she where got tell u so nonchalantly she go on blind date wan? Maybe she c u as xdd n spend sum time wif u cos she bored n gt no one.

U got fk her or not?

Anyway t age diff too big. If u serious n marry her got problems including giving birth

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There are 2 types of regret.
1) u do it then u regret y u do it
2) u didn't do it then u regret y didn't u do it
Which u prefer?

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Love or lust

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It's lust la young man...u just wanted to get into her pants la...if u are wooing her, u won't be in a dilemma like now and u won't post it on adults sex discussion but u will post it in matters of heart.

Just ask her or hints her ur intentions lor...

Onlyhuman

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There is a high chance your feeling for her, but how that going to end up, I guess everyone here is very clear. Not that cannot but 20 years later how, look and feel while you are still young and she, what's going to happen.

Given her age, I guess if she has the feeling for you, she would come chasing you and not you chasing her. Maybe still well maintain and good looking right now. Let see some 5 years down the road, will you still say the same thing.

Maybe let nature take its course, not surprise that she considering taking you as a fb. Young and strong why not. Now a day woman now not like last time, men can do, women can do as well.

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This shld be sexciting....Busted????

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Thanks everyone for the advise. She's not from jurong definitely. And i do like her. Not to fuck and go lah :)

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If u are serious about it, then gotta open your mouth.

If not, dun regret when someone else got her.

the only concern is both your age. IMHO.