Originally Posted by BackstageBambi (Post 21146440)

Hey it’s me again lol. Back with a new topic to rant. Please bear with me.

Posted here last year about my FB woes. Well after a short break from the same FB, we kinda got back together in action again recently. Big mistake.

I asked him for a different sort of experience (I wanted a BFE) but he wasn’t keen as he said it might cause feelings to develop, which I definitely understand. But I absolutely do not have / won’t have any sort of romantic feelings toward him as I’m emotionally unavailable myself. I merely wish to change things up a bit for the experience I want.

He’s always been into dom/sub and light bdsm, and all our romps so far have been delivered exactly the way he likes it. Usually he would go straight into action without spending much time on kissing or foreplay, and then it’s the main action.

Basically it’s like in this order:

1) Little to no kissing
2) Littie to no caressing
3) Sometimes goes down on me; sometimes “forgets to”
4) loves tying me up for kinks
5) banging action until he cums and stops
6) no second round even if I’ve not climaxed because he “only does one round”

I told him I’m tired carrying on with him when there’s nothing in it for me.

Am I being too emo? He also doesn’t entertain me when I tell him such things. Until the next time he wants my pussy, he will be nice and chummy again.

Originally Posted by BackstageBambi (Post 21146440)

Hey itÂ’s me again lol. Back with a new topic to rant. Please bear with me.

Posted here last year about my FB woes. Well after a short break from the same FB, we kinda got back together in action again recently. Big mistake.

I asked him for a different sort of experience (I wanted a BFE) but he wasnÂ’t keen as he said it might cause feelings to develop, which I definitely understand. But I absolutely do not have / wonÂ’t have any sort of romantic feelings toward him as IÂ’m emotionally unavailable myself. I merely wish to change things up a bit for the experience I want.

HeÂ’s always been into dom/sub and light bdsm, and all our romps so far have been delivered exactly the way he likes it. Usually he would go straight into action without spending much time on kissing or foreplay, and then itÂ’s the main action.

Basically itÂ’s like in this order:

1) Little to no kissing
2) Littie to no caressing
3) Sometimes goes down on me; sometimes “forgets to”
4) loves tying me up for kinks
5) banging action until he cums and stops
6) no second round even if I’ve not climaxed because he “only does one round”

I told him IÂ’m tired carrying on with him when thereÂ’s nothing in it for me.

Am I being too emo? He also doesnÂ’t entertain me when I tell him such things. Until the next time he wants my pussy, he will be nice and chummy again.

Originally Posted by sbwow (Post 21146448)

He treat you as a fuck toy, therefore doesn't need to entertain your emo feelings.

You said you are not interested in him and he is also your fuck toy, then why emo.

Everyone is interested in fuck only, nobody has time to entertain anyone's emo :rolleyes:

Originally Posted by Bigbluebird (Post 21146466)

Then move on, get a new FB that satisfies you and him together. It's not rocket science nor do you need a PhD and a big group of Samsters to tell you what you need to do next. Unless you are advertising out to potential suitors here with all your criteria listed.

Originally Posted by BackstageBambi (Post 21146520)

Finding new FB isn’t like snapping fingers. At least not how I do it. But yeah I get the whole context.

Originally Posted by BackstageBambi (Post 21146520)

Finding new FB isn’t like snapping fingers. At least not how I do it. But yeah I get the whole context.

Originally Posted by BackstageBambi (Post 21146440)

Hey it’s me again lol. Back with a new topic to rant. Please bear with me.

Posted here last year about my FB woes. Well after a short break from the same FB, we kinda got back together in action again recently. Big mistake.

I asked him for a different sort of experience (I wanted a BFE) but he wasn’t keen as he said it might cause feelings to develop, which I definitely understand. But I absolutely do not have / won’t have any sort of romantic feelings toward him as I’m emotionally unavailable myself. I merely wish to change things up a bit for the experience I want.

He’s always been into dom/sub and light bdsm, and all our romps so far have been delivered exactly the way he likes it. Usually he would go straight into action without spending much time on kissing or foreplay, and then it’s the main action.

Basically it’s like in this order:

1) Little to no kissing
2) Littie to no caressing
3) Sometimes goes down on me; sometimes “forgets to”
4) loves tying me up for kinks
5) banging action until he cums and stops
6) no second round even if I’ve not climaxed because he “only does one round”

I told him I’m tired carrying on with him when there’s nothing in it for me.

Am I being too emo? He also doesn’t entertain me when I tell him such things. Until the next time he wants my pussy, he will be nice and chummy again.

Originally Posted by BackstageBambi (Post 21146440)

I told him I’m tired carrying on with him when there’s nothing in it for me.

Am I being too emo? He also doesn’t entertain me when I tell him such things. Until the next time he wants my pussy, he will be nice and chummy again.

Originally Posted by xxFTOxx (Post 21146676)

U are missing the emotional connection that’s all. U want bf material without the commitment…so many guys here will jump to this opportunity. U just have to look ard. Remember it’s FB, fuck and go. If u want ur needs to be fulfilled, look for a proper bf. But remember, what’s the reason u are still with him? Maybe subconsciously u like the way he treats u? I may be wrong

Originally Posted by Jjcoolidge (Post 21147399)

Hey bambi, you're not emo. We all have our wants and needs. FB types are as varied as there are people on earth. What you need is not what he is willing to give. Why continue if there is no meeting of minds?