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Originally Posted by maxman

I think there is a saying that goes "Variety is the spice of life." True indeed.

If you want to swing, as another fellow member has already said, there are websites such as Aussie Matchmaker and Red Hot Pie that facilitate swinging or organize swingers parties. These websites probably require paid membership before you can see any events being announced. Even if they don't, swingers parties are usually invite-only especially among an exclusive or established group, but sometimes open to public with a higher fee for single males as such events are always more discriminatory to single males. Very commonly, these parties are described as an event for like-minded people to attend with no pretence, but there is no guarantee that you will get sex from anyone since it is up to individual attendees to decide whether they want to give consent.

I was "educated" by a good Aussie friend that there are some independently or privately organized swingers parties held in homes, and similarly, these events are for like-minded sexually adventurous people. These parties prefer couples or single females, and likely disallow single males. Again no guarantees of getting sex since attendees can refuse to engage with anyone. The party host may provide some snacks, and attendees may have to fork out some amount of money to help cover the cost of food and shower taken. Don't be surprised that the people attending these private swingers parties are mostly in the mid 40s and older, and not surprisingly some divorcees. Apart from the Stilettos party which seems to limit the age and cater for younger people, it would be a real big surprise to find young couples or young females at other swinging parties as I was told. If you think about it, it makes sense. Young people can easily get fuck buddies as young as they are or younger, but not so easily for the oldies and fatties who have past their prime.

You could spice up life with variety through another way.

Several years ago, I was also "educated" by another Aussie friend (of Asian ethnicity) who was an avid clubber. It was not much of an "education" since it is really not difficult to realize this situation. He said it was quite easy to score some lonely or bored international students or working holidayers. I believe it was easier for him because of several factors. He had a decent car and lived reasonably close to the CBD, hence a convenience to do the deed. I hate saying this but he was quite a good looker and quite alright dancing. Although admittedly his score rate was unpredictable, he had a different girl for dick exercise once every several weeks.

thanks mate for your clear description. actually i was keen to just see what is going on there as another side of fun in life. that wasn't matter to have anything there as sex but what i got from your text was mostly I need to expect facing with old, belly bear and fatty ppl there.