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Originally Posted by maxman
If the woman is well aroused, she would be vaginally wet enough for easy penetration, then there is little or no need for lubrication. Women usually and mostly take a longer time to achieve a high enough state of arousal to wet themselves unless she really finds you attractive (or madly in love or lust with a man), therefore I would take many of the sex stories written about "already wet" with a pinch of salt. Women who are already in menopause are more difficult to get wet, and I assume you are not with a woman as such.
I rarely have to use lubrication. However, when I did, I think lubricants were all designed in such a way that they become sticky as they dry up. As you pump away in her vagina, she should get more wet naturally and the drying sticky lubricant should not bother you as her vagina wets it.
I suspect the problem is she is still not aroused to become wet enough naturally. Perhaps she needs more sexcitement?
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Thanks for your prompt reply. It is true that if they are excited enough then there wont be a need for lubricant. However, if prolong sex, it may sometimes result into dryness so lubricant would come into play. The purpose of lub is to facilitate smoother penetration so that she can get horny again. But then again, i didnt state why i used lubricants, which is my mistake. It is not because my babe dont get wet easily, but because i did introduce sex toys to her which in need of lubricant for better penetration.
I did some research about water based lub, and they said they tend to be stickier compared to silicon based. Probably because of the glycerin compound in it. Heard that silicon based lub can last longer and not so sticky/non sticky. But the disadvantage is, you cant use it for silicon sex toys because it will damage the toy as silicon attracts silicon. My only concern is tackiness. So far, i went to the sex shop, they recommended me Frolic waster based gel which is better than my previous swiss navy lub. Tried and tested during Vday, and yes it is smoother but still got abit of tackiness.