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Not to sound harsh but what do you expect in return for this affair? Just pure love or are you planning to start a family with him?

In any case, being the "mistress" you have to take caution to be rejected anytime or being condemn

A friendly advice if you feel he love you more than his wife, he will cherish you, or else he may treat you as another play thing

I seen alot of ladies getting abandon when the guy becomes bored of them, just recently, this girl I know was the "mistress" and was pregnant with his kids for 2 month, end up the guy suddenly say he cannot love her, only treat her as a "friend" only, end up she was devastated