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Originally Posted by maxsee
Sometimes i dun understand how can an affair be long lasting when it is started by two very selfish individual that only care about their own needs instead of remembering their marital vows, family committment, children...etc etc.
There is no secret to such thing when it is doom to fail right from the start.
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firstly for a affair to start, the marital vows were challenged and failed. for a affair to start, there must be trouble, not giving sex, lack of interest in each other lives, a lot of quarrels, fights, maybe violence, money issues.
IT STARTS WHEN MARRIED PEOPLE ARE SELFISH AND CARE OF THEMSELVES AND NOT BOTHER WITH THE OTHER PERSON'S THOUGHTS, FEELINGS, OPINIONS.
In desperation, women or men look for ways to survive. In this case a affair. It also can be looking for FL or ONS.
Affairs are doomed to fail. But it starts from a doomed marriage. And looking at the stats of the divorce rate, marriages are not winning the fight either.