Thread: What is the secret to long lasting affair?
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Re: What is the secret to long lasting affair?
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Originally Posted by voluptuousvenus View Post
How do you handle the insecurities and the need for constant reassurance? You cannot demand and just accept what is freely given. How can people last 4,7 25 years in such affairs? Does it get any easier? Do you tell each other ILYs? Do u ever feel your other man could be cheating on you too? I'm sorry too many questions. This is an amazing thread!
you cant. Its just one big messy thing, coupled with crazy wild sex in the first few years

expect change if you go longer than 3 years, Boredom, starts feeling and experiencing the same issues like when you are married

Not sure it gets easier. It might, but then again, it gets easier because its become a routine. And that's when the person might decide they are looking for another person besides you.
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