[syncrossed]

This thread is called Great Bonks so I may get flamed for what I'm going to argue for.

Chionging FLs is not a charity. Like any business, they are providing a service. Thats why in Western countries like the US and Canada, they're referred to as 'service providers'. As many OKTs list on their ads, services on offer include frenching, BBBJ, FJ, and the GFE we all desire. And we expect those services.

But when some FLs fail to provide these services, perhaps some bros are reluctant to share their bad/average experiences under the impression that it will spoil/break the girls' ricebowls. Let's not mix any humanitarian impulses with this commercial space. They are here to work and provide a service. We are here to purchase a service. If they are not able to provide the services offered, then they obviously dont have what it takes to be in this industry. When a customer of a telco, restaurant or transport provider gets lousy service, should he/she hold back criticism for fear of spoiling the business?

Otherwise whats the point of this forum and thread? Is it not to share information with other chiongsters? By sharing only good/great bonks, it seems most of us are perpetuating a state of market non-information, and encouraging poor/substandard service by FLs and OKTs. Sure, FLs are human too, and deserve to be treated properly. But if we treat chionging partly as a humanitarian/charity activity (i.e helping the girls earn a living), we will be foregoing our right as customers to a basic level of service that was advertised.

Are we going to let our inner roberts/carrot heads take over us??

I will admit that on many occasions I too have been guilty of mincing my words, and padding my FL experience.

But no more. No to poor service and low GFE.