Well... Actually there is no right or wrong no matter what we answer.
Just take it as a test between the 2 of u. If she don't sway no matter how good he is; good looking, got $$$, etc etc. Then u know she's the one for u. If she does, then too bad. But the earth will still rotate with or without her.
I know it's easier said than done but that's the way the world is.
My humble thoughts.
