[Chiongster888]

After reading your thread for half an hour ,totally can relate with u man bro,i had a similar encounter.Met a Viet girl at siamdiu when she was working for 1 month,after that she back vietnam i still visited her once ,after a few months never talk much then suddenly one day msg me say she coming back sg to work for 6 months work permit,pick her after work on the second day to have some fun.Initially was intending to visit her once every month at her pub to reduce the damage of flower but gradually increased to twice,thrice.Lucky the money invested is not alot.Then eventually she get the hang of it that every time i visited i want to bring her back home,so everytime say want to go home after work or tired.Her pub is ghost town nobody one compared to the siamdiu she worked last time.But there is plump guy around the age of 40 will find her very often ,that guy is the pub's boss friend i think ,almost everyday go down.Fast forward... April, already damn no feeling with her already ,msg is same like usual ,you wake up already?you eat already?Wanted to break up but can't bear to let go of the free sex,(can't really say free,every time i go down will hang flower but not alot)
So this month she got permission from her boss say she can go back Saigon to visit her family ,so she took 3 days off.On the day when she is coming back sg ,never reply my msg at all.i thought what happened ,next day she say got something want tell me but keep don't want to say ,so i went the pub to ask her str. Eventually force her to say out she wanted to break ,i ask her why ,she say she together with the 40yr old guy alr,i asked did she have sex with him and she say yes ,on the day she came back to sg first time,the guy have been wooing her for months.This really hit me hard ,breaking up is fine as i wanted to do so already,but when she told me she had sex with a fucking plump 40 yr old guy,i really cannot take it,all of u must be thinking is because of money,but she said no,is love ,smlj.So the guy bought her an IPhone 8 as her Iphone 5 is kind of spoil already but her birthday is just few days away and i already preparing to buy,reason for break up ,she told me i neglected her as i didn't visit her during christmas,count down ,cny and when she's sick but that guy is with her.We have been together about 8months from July 17 till April 18.Till now,i am unsure myself my relationship with her is lust or really love