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Originally Posted by yqz7
Wow just read through all the pages of relationship and KC things exciting.
I’m not newbie in this and I’m single for the longest time but I must say so far I’m quite lucky. Or maybe I lack the skills in KC others loll.
It’s like i can feel like I am in that trap but not yet there.
Maybe it helps that I usually go for the good looking girls who usually turn out to be angpai in the end. Like some bro said, when it’s AP maybe it’s easily to stop yourself going too deep.
Maybe lower self esteem helps. I don’t think I’m handsome and I’m not rich. So there’s nothing too appealing about myself to let me think that the girls are that much into me. Not when there are that many bros asking for her attention being an AP.
I can be nice, buy them simple dinner/lunch, occasional flowers or gifts but I don’t expect anything in return cos these are small tokens of remembrance if it’s even worthy of that. More of a friendly kind of thing.
I’m more stingy and aware as well, I usually keep it to visiting once per week at max, and sometimes when you feel like it’s over, then try visiting another girl to get out of the feeling of longing for the girl.
And the final blow? When you think that the girl has a thing for you but when they leave they don’t respond anymore on wechat then you know you are just like any other. When u feel that hit, other girls after that you just think that it’s going to be the same thing, then you will be fine.
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My sentiments exactly.
Actually, just enjoy the ride.
Sometimes I also buy them fruits or desserts only becoz Im already waiting nearby n nothing to do.
No point competing becoz there will always be more generous Bros out there who can invest more time n money than you.
Lastly, this is just internet forum, anyone can just write what they want lor.
Real or not...only they themselves will know.