[tabao11]

Originally Posted by MCDF

My 5 cents advice, dun start if you hv not
Once started, it is easily to be hooked.
Or maybe my self will is weak.

I personally find it takes two hands go clapped.
I too believe that lesseb the load on wife can help intimacy. But I am wrong. It really depends on your wife.

For me, since my eldest was born, i start to be hands on all the way for more than 10+ years. Including chores, fetching children, coaching, etc. But this only create opportunities for my wife to cheat on me which i found out 8years ago.

But I finally succumbed of no release to G about 3 years ago. After that, it was sort of no return for me.

I can only now pretend to be as "correct" as a dad in front my children and continue to coach them. While knowing my wife is still cheating, and me occassionally releasing outside.

It's common.

I had a very few chance that I know I will definitely get hooked up as I encountered few ladies (different timing) that hinted to me to go further, quite open with conversation topics... love my body..etc Still not taking any move yet...