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Sharing with you my perspectives on this, although I wouldn't consider myself experienced or anything. My reasons for visiting GL is quite different from yours and I'm older by quite abit, but I share the same concerns about STDs. It took me quite abit of deliberation (and research) before finally engage in this.

GL is legal and regulated by the government. WL need to go for routine STD testing to continue working. That makes GL WL "safer" than clubbing ONS, massage ladies or random website freelancers, because its likely that the latter groups of people don't even do regular testing. That said, it's not a 100% safe thing cuz you never know if they are infected between test periods, or the reliability of the tests (I've heard of ways to "appear healthy" during testing).

Thus, my personal stand is to "play" but as safely as possible, even if it limits my play. Some of my personal rules includes "condom ALWAYS on for any activity" and "nothing involving the mouth". That means no kissing, no licking of female privates, no uncovered BJ, etc. This of course, does limit my enjoyment, but I feel much safer and mentally less stressed after every GL visit. I'm satisfied enough to blow my load, within the rules I set for myself.

Some bros might advise BBBJ is actually quite safe, and in my research it is indeed so, and BBBJ really does feel better, but I rather the peace of mind, even if it is >1% risk. Again, it is ultimately what your appetite for risk vs enjoyment is.

I don't think WLs will be unhappy with your inexperience. If anything, it gives them the control of serve you however they prefer, since you don't have any special requests, or know better. Just like how no employee will complain boss give too little work. "Bad treatment" is subjective, since it depends on your expectations and wants out of the session, just like how some bros might be unhappy not being able to suck on nipples, but I think you'll need to visit a couple of time first to ascertain what is "bad treatment" for you.

All the best!