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Originally Posted by ii11ii
Preface that I'm a younger fella (mid 20s), never been to GL but interested to try.
Only ever had some experience in relationship, now single already cos breakup and want to go GL because no time for another relationship due to work.
The laojiaos and more experienced ones probably don't have this fear but as a young fella I legit scared of STDs, which is the main thing holding me back so far.
How safe is the legal side of GL in general? Mainly looking at PRC houses due to preference, if any tips or recommendations from experienced bros also very welcome.
Also do the WLs get unhappy or give bad treatment if someone like me have very little experience because I've only ever done with one gf in the past sadly (sry I ugly)
Thanks bros
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It's hard to say
On one hand, I want to join most of the old timer bros here who have done it all and say "DON'T START IT, YOUNGSTER!"
But on the other hand, if I think back to all my years of cheonging (not only in GL but in other countries and places out there), overall I have absolutely 0 regrets, in fact my only "regret" is not to "cheong much much more" than I did, especially considering how over the years and decades, the cheonging scene everywhere has sadly regressed a lot.
As for relationships, it seems that you were at least able to have girls wanting to be in a relationship with u, and even have sex with you. For me, from the very beginning, I can't even have any girls to go beyond "EWWW!" when I try to even talk to them. (that's why my only experience with women in my whole life is cheonging and nowhere else). But if u are able to pull ordinary girls, I would say just try to get girls that way it might be healthier overall.
But then again, we all know how women act nowadays and how crazy unrealistic their demands are no thanks to social media.
Plus, if u cheong, then u will experience many exciting things that ordinary girlfriends might not give you. For example, AR where they lick your asshole, or even anal sex (based on my experience cheonging overseas). Plus, even within GL itself you could have sexual experience with multiple nationalities of girls like Chinese, Thai, and Viet, (sadly no more Malaysian Chinese now)
As for STD, in all my years of cheonging, as far as I know, I never caught any STDs at all. If anything, since the very first time I started when I was still in my teens, and until today, my D size seemed to have increased by a few cm.
As for your little experience, I don't know how young you look like. But when I first started until I was around 24-25, (and it helps that even until today I look much younger than my actual age), WLs seemed to be "extra excited" and even "went the extra mile" when they found out that I was younger than them, and I was acting extra "nerdy, shy, scared innocent". Some even borderline r4ped me which was really exciting to say the least
But just be reminded that in 2024, the standards now is nothing compared to the olden days (for me it's mainly referring to 2007-2015 period)
Just to add to the "addicting" side of things mentioned by some bros. Yes, indeed this is a very addictive hobby and once you start you never want to stop. Even how the GL shops are like, where you could see girls lounging around asnd walking around, worse if you diligently read FRs in this forum, once you try a girl, you will see other girls, and you will be very curious to try ALL OF THEM
and there could be a slippery slope you should be prepared to navigate. Like for my experience throughout the years, my desires have evolved and getting "darker"
When I first started in my teens, all I wanted was "to get rid of my virginity and just fcuk a pussy"
Then it started expanding to "i want to try many different women", then to "I want to try different nationalities of women", then it expands again to "i want to try anal sex", and other kinks like "I want the girls to use dildos to fcuk my ass"
If you are prepared to open the pandora's box, to enter a whole new wide world, then dive in. But if not, then stick to finding girls the traditional way