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Originally Posted by gidi
I think so. Apart from parents and children, it is a take in give relationship.
if people say relationships are about giving. this is bullshit hahaha. In the end, if you don't receive enough and only give a lot, that's the opportunity for cheating
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Yeah very true.
I watched a psychology video before that shared in healthy relationships, both parties give and take close to equal such that no one is keeping score, in the sense 'transactions' take place but it all balances out nicely.
And so the 'giving' part works, because when one gives, the other gives also.
Only when one party is entitled and takes too much, then the giver will start to feel resentment.