[QUOTE=Charmaine;2636828]Thank you all for your kind replies.
I will definitely check out Private Dancer as recommended. Is it available as an e-book?
Hi Charmaine,
I read more than just the Private Dancer, many years ago. The stories are very true and real. Unfortunately, most end up losers.
I am touched by your gentleness and respectfullness. You will go far in life.
If you feel you really like the girl and she prove to be of your liking. And both of you are willing to like and love each other (if that happen), you have a lot of forgiveness and be able to accept her past.
For a start, your thoughts about her sleeping with other men does not augment well with your thoughts for a start.
Have a big heart, have an open mind (if you can). Trust me, they are just as human and they do LIKE Singaporean guys. If I wwere in your situation and she is really a good girl, I go ahead. (too bad, I can't turn the clock)
I once had the similiar thoughts like you and expressed it to a girl I really liked. She did not give answer and just fade away. I quietly regretted many many years later.
Having said that, I agreed with Mr R, there are black sheep. But from your expression, she seems real nice, but she also know you will habour such thoughts. Probably it will take time, for her to overcome her complex.
Are you willing to go the mile? It is really up to you.
You have my blessing..... choke dee
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