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Originally Posted by Charmaine
Thank you all for your responses. 
I didn't sleep well last night. She texted me at exactly 3am (2am Bangkok time; that's when they end work for the day) the night before. "Darling, I miss you so much!" was the message content.
All of you are absolutely right about the need to be big-hearted. I'm sure she's had an ugly past (they all seem to, anyway) and I need to be able to see past that if I want this to go anywhere. But the reason why I haven't been sleeping well is precisely because of that - I don't think I can. Not at this moment anyway.
Yesterday night I found out there is a real possibility that the "Australian-Chinese" guy in her life before me is on this board, reading this right now. We're all brothers so I can't bear any grudges, but it still hurts nonetheless. She's not told me much about him, but instinct tells me that he's that guy.
To him I say this - congratulations for scoring. She's a nice girl.
Now I'm just trying to look past this and forgive her past. But it's not going to be easy. I foresee an argument the next time we speak on MSN. |
bro charmaine .. i'm not being negative on thai gals ... the bros here have been very nice to u saying good things ... i hope u'll not be offended by what i'm going to comment here ...
first ... she can afford to drive a car, live in a rented condo, have branded stuffs etc etc ... have u think abt how she can afford this life style ??
remember she's living in thailand ...
second ... if a working gal like her says she do not sleep with anyone ... it's like telling cat do not eat fish ...
third ... she's internet savy ... which means she know more "foreigners" than u can ever think of ... and the possibilities when these "foreigners" come to bkk she hang out with them are high ...
fourth ... thai gals are smarter than u think .... especially those working gals ... have u heard of the chinese saying "a long fishing line catches more fish" ??
fifth .. have it ever cross ur mind that someone or more than one is "taking care" of her ??
and sending money to her every month ??
bro ... i have been through these before ...
everythings looks so perfect in the beginning ...
i know what u r thinking and how u feel now ...
i was in ur state of mind before and only listen to the good words ...
just like the class 95 advertisment slogan ...
beware .... u ain't see nothing yet ...