[nitefyre]

i suppose to each his own experience right?

Perhaps in the past, TS had dated local girls and never found them to be as caring, good in bed, etc compared to his WL. Purely a personal decision in my opinion, so long as he can ascertain she is not in it for his money.

Let's look at it if the roles were reversed. If you met a nice girl from a good family you want to marry, would you tell her that you've visited prostitutes regularly in the past? If her family knows, would they look at you differently? Would she judge you the same way we are judging WLs now?

Of course, marriage should never be taken lightly as it is a lifetime commitment. Suggest that TS of course think carefully before making decision. It will be a tough ride especially if your wife cannot be in SG. This type of difficulty can easily lead to divorce later.