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Originally Posted by ben06
haven been posting for quite some time...my previous thread is dead...so i starting one dat tells my silly story....
if u guys have read my thread before...(troubled mind)...tis is part 3...
finally she is married...initially...i can't accept the fact dat lies is wat she is good at....
why do i still hope dat she will come back to me one day....?
me and her very complicated...letting go is not as easy as i think...
i want to let go....but whenever my phone rings...its her...i will surely pick up her call...
i dunno whether i reali tio "gong tao" anot...
can't control wat i wan to do...always telling myself she not the one for me...till now...sometimes i still think abt her...
wat is our relatioship now....?frenz i guess...we dun quarrel as much like b4...we dun sms each other daily...sometimes not a call from her for weeks...
do i still love her...?not as much i guess....
its funny....i still miss her....mayb knowing her heart dun belong to me anymore...i dunno when she will leave me....hope i can take the impact when she reali does... 
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Whatever she good at, there always another girl better!
Go out and socialise, you will meet better people, 40% of the time you date you find better girls than her. So everytime you meet another girl, you become 5% stronger till you over come your pain period.
You need to sever the emotional connection to thoughts of her. Spend time doing things you enjoyed, so you calmed down enough to logically see that she was not worth the trouble.
My 2@ cents worth of remedy is easy - By never contacting her, pursuing other women, and letting time separate the emotion from the memory.