Re: Events In CP
Wow!
So much discussion on Bao'ing when all I wanted to do was to figure out who it was that's REALLY Bao'ing CP gals for RMB 30K++/month!
I've had a few experience with packaging a gal and also "helping out" regulars with a stipend. Reason being that I ALWAYS jump in head-long anytime I come across a girl who I click with; to me, life's too short to worry and be 100% sure before doing something...or I guess, someone ... that I truly enjoy.
And as far as money is concerned, its all relative isn't it? Just so long as I'm reasonably sure that its not too out of line and its something I can afford/think reasonable, it shouldn't faze - right?
And as far being worried about "exclusivity" is concerned - its pretty well like what I told my much younger wife when we were discussing marriage; I told her "Hon, you're so beautiful, so much younger than I and I DO realize that there ARE a lot of things in life that you've not experienced or maybe curious about. Now, of course I truly hope that it never happens, but if there ever was an occassion or a person with whom you just cannot help but to have an affair with, then I do hope that you will strictly follow these 4 requests of mine."
And I outlined to her the following:
1. Do not EVER let me know - even lie if you need to.
2. Don't let me lose face - and that means don't let people I know, friends, relatives etc to know that you're having an affair
3. Don't ever catch/get anything dirty - always insist on using condoms.
4. Don't ever get pregnant.
Now, if you strictly follow these 4 things, it really doesn't matter; For all I care/know about, you could just be out having tea with your friends, be going to the beauty salon - and not even know/be affected that you're with him.
Now, of course when I said the above to her, it was plain for her to understand that I also meant that its very much a case of "What's sauce for the Goose is sauce for the Gander" - and Knock on Wood, I have up to now had a very good marriage/married life.
I apply the same principle to girls I Bao, and again, knock on wood, it's always been good and have brought me a lot of happiness and contentment. Nothing's worth it to worry and be in constant anguish as I see how it is with some of my friends who also Bao gals and is always checking, wondering and worrying; to the extent that they'd install tracking and eavesdropping apps on their gal's IPhone, remote access cameras installed etc. Even before I would even think to do so, I'd probably just dump her...coz for her/the relationship to have even spawned such thoughts in my mind... well, its just not worth it to me.
Just my very own POV and I certainly do not think that its applicable - or even wise - for others to emulate.
SEAN -Yeah, yeah, yeah, I'm just an old Fool. Kekekeke (instead of hahahaha on this board!!)
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