[abugga]

And the above, is what most of us are guilty of, in fact we do it everyday. We just don't realize it.

Just like how I don't hate my ex girlfriend for leaving me cold blooded. I hated her for what she represented, someone that actually did the same to me in the past. For some distant memory in my younger days that someone left me in the exact same way.

The same goes to her, she does not hate me for what I am, but hated me for what I was representing at the time of my anger, we quarreled a lot and that indirectly reminded her of her family problems, I was representing the turmoil she once had before..

It's time to look within.