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Originally Posted by LovePotion
Recently i saw this similar thread over a female forum discussing about whether to engage with those guys whom are bad in sex
If you happen to find a gal whom is hot, sexy and have some dress sense, however she is damn noob and bad in sex
What will you do? (Imagine you are fucking a dead fish throughout the relationship which pissed you totally but she is a nice person with good character)
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In my opinion,
sexual compatibility is one of the important things in a relationship.
Some people needs lot of sex in a relationship. Some do not need. Two people that are not compatible (in any major relationship requirement, not just sex) should not marry. If a horny person marry a non-horny person, one will get frustrated from lack of physical intimacy, the other from too much pestering... it will affect the rest of the relationship.
Basically, I see it as a whole package. Similarly, a good fucker with fucked up attitude I wouldn't want.
As a horny guy, for the above situation, I will try to improve the sexual intimacy first. She could be "dead fish" because she don't know how to enjoy sex, so need to perform so-called "sexual grooming". Personally, a girl who dresses sexy I think would have some undiscovered horniness buried deep inside. If she dress and portray herself as sexy, then likely wants to be a hot and sexy in bed too, but don't know how yet. Got potential.
At the end, if really cannot make it, then I will let her go. Some people may say I am shallow, but to me sexual compatibility (different from just sex) is part and parcel of the whole package for a lasting relationship.
Unless the non-horny one can allow the horny one to play outside, within certain limits and rules of course.