[desertaria]

Hi Bros,

I was up in China this week. On Thursday, under the influence of alcohol and a moment of brain-fart, I called for one of the ladies working in the spa at the hotel back to my room.

Long story short, we had a crack at it. There was no kissing, some fondling, unprotected oral sex administered from both parties (no ejaculation) and the vaginal intercourse was with cap, of course.

I guess, reading from the forums here, the risks of contract HIV is remote (but not Zero) and more likely is the risk of other nasties. Note that this was my first time with a commercial sex worker, and first time in a long long time with someone other than my wife.

Nevertheless, I plan to take some precautions but would appreciate advice from experienced bros here.

1) I've read about something called PEP (Post-Exposure Prophylaxis). Has anyone tried this and what is the feedback?

2) It is still under 72 hours from my contact with the FL, so from what I read PEP is still effective? Is this correct?

3) Are there clinics that administer this PEP discreetly?

4) If I go to DSC/ATS, will it be totally anonymous?

5) Does ATS / DSC test for any other nasties as well as HIV?

I understand that to be (almost) completely sure, I should wait 1 month for the first test and 3 months for the next.

I guess the last bit of advice is about getting ideas on how to go "vegetarian" for 3 months. I am pretty sure I will be able to keep away from FLs and outside dalliances.

The problem is the wife. We have a healthy sex life and she is currently pregnant so I definitely do not want to put her and the baby at risk. Of course, as many bros will say here, should have thought about it in the first place and I completely agree - it was a moment of complete folly and brainlessness, but what's done is done and I'll have to manage it as best as I can.

So any ideas on how i can fend my wife off for 3 months? I guess one way will be to come clean but given her current state I prefer to hide it to spare unneeded stress and unpleasantness for now.

Any brilliant ideas?

Much appreciated. Thanks.