[Intltuk]

TS, since this a amicable breakup, suggest u hire a lawyer(familiar with matrimonial matters) to help advice and sort all matters in ur mind. Though ur case is not as complex as those fighting it out in court, it req'd a good understanding of the laws of S'pore, who can help u understand the options going forward. Like u mention, housing. HDB rules, CPF rules, women's charter, etc comes into play once u divorce.