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TS, Just share with you. Mine was over in 6 months. Non contested.
Split custody may not be the best option especially if the siblings are close.
People told me that a divorce is never "complete" if the ex husband and ex wife are still under the same roof. But the arrangement is really bad for the couple. There is a certain discomfort and tension. So it is better that one moves out.
Children will grow up to understand why their parents had to split up.
Look for a lawyer that will protect your interests. Remember The Courts will always rule in the woman's favour. Even if she committed adultery. If there are assets whether bought before or after the marriage will be divided if the woman asks for it. The point of contention is contribution by the woman whether direct or indirect. 6 years of marriage still not so bad. If 20, 30 or 40 years? You will be cleaned.
Dissolving the marriage and dividing the assets are 2 different matters but heard at the same hearing. For example, you may win by suing her for adultery but still have to give her some of your assets.
Hope that helps.