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Originally Posted by Jintu
Hi all,
I just came back from a 5 days / 4 night trip from BKK. I was surprised that many of the girls in the go go bars in Nana Plaza showed a black face when I tried to pick them due to the fact that I am an SG Indian. I am not the typical Indian, I am Westernized having spent most of my life living in Canada and I have always treated any gals that I book very well and they all are happy to have my company. Any bros can shed light on this? This was my maiden trip there I was thoroughly annoyed by the racist behavior shown towards me by the girls in the go go bars there. I know that they don’t like guys from India but I am 100% Singaporean and I am not lapsap, or stingy. Also, I am very hygienic and clean. But I did not have any issues at the soapy massage places. Only had issues at the go go bars in Nana Plaza, 8 girls from 3 different bars rejected me. Any advice or suggestions are welcome! Thanks in advance...
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Bro, I sympathize with you 'cause I'm an Indian like you & I've faced many similar situations before. Have been going to BKK since 10 years at least once a year. My visit will include Soi Cowboy, Nana Plaza, Patpong, Sutthisan, Discos e.g. RCA, Funky Villa , Caribbean, Massages e.g. Nataree, Amsterdam, Poseidon, Emanuelle etc. Besides BKK I've also traveled for pleasure to China, Indonesia, Malaysia, Vietnam, Philippines, Hong Kong, Macau ...the list is long. I fully agree with the reply you got from Pita123 which is accept it. Just accept the racism, accept the bias & try working around it, overcoming it. Here are some tips I've picked up over the years & use it to good success in getting the best girls not just to flirt with me in the bar/pub but also end up in bed with me:
1. Be tidy in dressing, appearance and mannerisms. Clean shaving a bushy mustache helps.
2. Go with a Chinese/Thai/local friend. After your friend has chosen his girl, greet and talk to his girl , cheers with her. Ask her to recommend you a friend. Upon recommendation normally the girls feel more comfortable & racism takes a back seat.
3. Make eye contact & smile to the girl you're keen on. If she smiles back signal to her to come to you. If it doesn't help look for a waitress/mamasan and tell them your wish. When you ask, have a backup number(2nd choice) in your mind every time. Just in case, if that girl rejects your offer to come to you, straight away ask for another number. Sit with the backup girl and after she's comfortable with you, tell her frankly that the first girl is really your heartthrob. At times the girl will actually convince her to come to you. After that you can carry on.
4. Stay in good hotels. A 21 year old slim pretty girl slightly was reluctant to leave with me from Rainbow II or Rainbow I (can't recall) & totally unwilling to french me inside the joint finally after a bit of talking got convinced enough to come over for 1 hour ST only, LT offer rejected. When she reached the hotel and finally to my deluxe suite in Sukhumvit 15 "Four Points By Sheraton", she dropped her bags and just started looking everywhere in the room with a bit of startle on her face. She frenched and licked me all over, showered , then super long BBBJ and ended up we made love thrice that night & she stayed the whole night and morning at 10:30 am I had to literally chase her out. Best part was she gave me her number to call her again & said I don't need to pay any barfine , just sms her and she'll come over. I still have her picture in my dropbox account that I peek to bring back fond memories.
5. Last but Most Important point is "Be Persistent" & Never give up. Never turn your evening sour just because a girl rejected you. Keep trying & you'll succeed. Cheonging is all about hits & misses. Think how boring cheonging will be if everytime you go to a certain place at a certain time , you'll get a damn good girl with damn good service. You'll eventually get stale & stop going there after a while. Real long lasting fun is in hitting & missing and occasionally striking big. Also if you face rejection, don't despair. Remember the famous saying...Never feel disappointed if you miss a bus, train or a GIRL !...One goes surely another will come
Cheers