Hi Bro,

I've had one experience bonking a married colleague while abroad. However, she and I had been flirting with each other even before we went on that trip, so it may not count as the type of experience you are asking for - ie seducing a married colleague while travelling together.

I guess it would all depend on a few things. If you are travelling in a group, and there are several female colleagues, then the chances are slim. In such circumstances, women tend to form a clique, and even if one of them had the hots for you, she'd never get the chance to show it. This is especially true if they are married, cos none of them would risk being caught in a compromising situation with you. Even if ALL of them had the hots for you, you'd get none.

The same would be true if there were several male colleagues and one female. Then all the male ones would either start "protecting" her or start hitting on her (depends on the average age of the male colleagues).

The best situation would be if you and a female colleague were travelling together. There would be numerous chances for you to create a subtlely charged atmosphere (by being chivalrous, complimenting her on dress/appearence, "accidental" touching, being the hero in difficult situations), and many excuses for you to go to her room (carrying stuff up for her, asking for aspirin/panadol, TV in your room not working etc,etc).

Unfortunately, in your case, it seems like you are travelling in a group. Sorry to deflate your hopes buddy. But these are the realities of human group (i prefer the term "herd") behaviour.

In your case, there is only one option - get them all drunk. First, shake off the male colleagues if possible. For example, if you are going to Bangkok, suggest to the whole group that you should go to the Suan Lum night market. Most of the male colleagues would invent excuses to go somewhere else (and go off for bonking) or stay in hotel (and go off for bonking). So you will be left alone with a bunch of shopaholic females. Be courageous and tolerate their endless shopping - your reward will come later. Make sure you get back to the hotel early - around 10 (before the ladies get sleepy, and most importantly, before your male colleagues come back). Then suggest that you all go for a drink. They will definitely oblige you, cos you were so nice as to accompany them shopping. Get them drunk (invent some drinking games - women will drink freely when they feel safe in the company of other women). Sit near the one you are targetting, and show her a bit of extra attention. When all are sufficiently drunk, break it up, and stagger off to your respective rooms. After 15-20 min, go to the room of the chick you targetted, and ask if you can watch movie/drama/football, cos your TV doesnt work. The rest will follow. A drunk woman is easy to get.

Most married women are curious to try an outside fling. This is mostly true if they married their first love. After a few yrs of marriage, they start regretting "saving up" and not trying other guys.

One word of warning, though. Try not to get things complicated. Don't fall in love with a married woman or expect her to fall in love with you, cos that will make both your lives hell. Just enjoy the moment and enjoy the sex. Leave the loving to the hubby.