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Originally Posted by SEAJ
Just my own musings - hope y'all don't mind!!
I'd say just about all the girls who come to CP do NOT go there to find true love - they're there to make money, period. The same thing, most guys who come to CP is there to screw around and not there to find true love and/or long term relationships. This being so, the equation is pretty well equal - except that the girls live this day in and day out and are more skilled/adept at handling AND manipulating the situation to their advantage.
Most WG's hate what they are doing and are always on the look-out for an easier way to make their money instead of doing what they are now doing. And the most preferred method is to get "packaged" by a guy - or better still by multiple guys! Us guys MUST realize this and be on the look-out from our own weaknesses when dealing with WG's.
Sure, there's nothing wrong with truly enjoying the feelings of being in love; in fact I always go for it if I "click" with a girl - WG or not - and let the consequences be damned!! I truly enjoy all the bells and jingles of falling in love....but I also always TRY to have it at the back of my head that all this Air and Lightness is predicated on money changing hands.
And I personally know that this is many times hard to do - especially if the relationship had been so perfect, had lasted for so long , to the point that one gets lulled into thinking that this is the real thing! WRONG! For soonest or later, reality steps in and the ugliness of the very basis of the relationship - MONEY - rears its monstrous head.
My caution to y'all - just be very careful when dealing with WG's - they're PROs in all sense of the word, whilst we all are truly just amateurs.
SEAJ
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SEAJ, I think you are talking, in the main, about WGs re above post. When you get the time, I'll like your take on non WGs, those not even in the P4P trade, ie for example, working as a salesperson in a fashion store. Do you think they are gold-diggers too?