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Originally Posted by oolouis
My take.... from my limited experience
For the budget-..............
The trouble begins when one, for reasons of the challenge, or the ego (we are ALL not without), or pure recklessness, or an excess of funds
1. Brings the PZL girl t.....................
That's when your budget gets thrown out of whack. Not to mention that all those 'poor' working girls, ala prostitutes in ktv, sauna, bbs or whatever guise, are laughing behind your back at how big a carrot you are.
Yes dont even think for a moment that they appreciate and are moved by your kind-heartedness. As SEAJ wrote, these p4p maestros play the game everyday and will beat you, however street cred you think you are, hands down.
Having said all the above, on a personal level, I will confessed I have been guilty of all of the above despite prior advice from seasoned cheongsters. I learnt, and am still learning.........
Such is life!
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LOL!!! I could have also easily written all of the above same things!! All my foibles, my mistakes driven by ego, my periodical lapses from good judgement…. Just because the little head was doing all the thinking!!
And just like you, I keep on making the same mistakes time and time again…but hey, there’s hope….I’m also continually learning too!!
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Originally Posted by oolouis
SEAJ, I think you are talking, in the main, about WGs re above post. When you get the time, I'll like your take on non WGs, those not even in the P4P trade, ie for example, working as a salesperson in a fashion store. Do you think they are gold-diggers too?
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I will reply to this by first stating that what I am going to write will be generalities, that there is obviously no absolutes and that all of it is purely just my humble opinion based upon my own observations and thus only anecdotal evidence to support such.
Yes, what I wrote previously applies mostly to obvious WG’s, but then again, I would urge equal caution when dealing with these supposed civvies in Chang Ping.
Most people knows of Chang Ping’s sex capital of China reputation and thus one must question the reason why some of these girls would still be there doing these regular jobs. Why would girls work in CP when besides doing their main duties, they have to contend with fending off the constant stream of would-be lotharios, know how it must affect their reputation by just being there, and most importantly why would they be working there when average wage levels is markedly lower compared to even nearby small town, never mind compared to the wage levels in major cities like SZ, GZ, SHA, BJ etc. And the reason for such lower level of wages in CP is that there is just a disproportionate quantity of girls wanting to have regular jobs there.
Oh of course there ARE girls who are in CP just innocently doing their job but IMHO, there is just way more girls who, although NOT wanting to work in jobs obviously associated with the sex industry, nonetheless still want to take advantage of their youth, beauty and sex-saleability.
First of all it has a lot to do with their own feelings of self-worth – that they just cannot accept working outright as a hooker, that even if they do end up selling their body, that they still are NOT a hooker. And the unfortunate fact of the matter is that Chinese families do make such unreasonable demands of their off-springs that too many of these girls don’t really have much choice but to sell their body. Ahhh….filial piety…..and how Chinese societies value their sons way more than their daughters. Terrible injustice!!
Many of these girls working at regular jobs are moonlighting kept girls – supplanting their income from their masters or are girls who had been cut lose by their previous keepers; and they know that their chances of being kept again by another are as good working at a regular job than it is if they work as a hooker. They know that guys find supposedly “regular working girls” as being more acceptable to become their girlfriend.
And there ARE many girls who just cannot stand being an outright hooker – the isolatory existence, the loneliness, the wear and tear on their bodies, the indignities they have to go through….and just opt out of the trade….whilst the monetary demands from their own situation/families still necessitating them to sell their bodies. And thus they just work at these regular jobs whilst still on the look-out for “opportunities.”
Allow me to highlight the game that KTV DJ’s play to illustrate how such girls operate. A DJ really cannot be considered as working as a hooker as they are not supposed to go out with clients –thus a supposedly just a regular job. A lot of smart girls work as a DJ as they know that they are never forced to have to go out with a client and can maintain a veneer of respectability to others as well as to themselves. On the other hand, they are right there with a room full of testosterone charged males all there to ravage ladies – and she has a room full of prospects to pick and choose from. Next time you got to a KTV, notice how your DJ would gravitate to guys who seems to be “good prospects” – either better looking guys or more commonly, guys who has “financial attractions” to them i.e. rich and free spending guys.
Your DJ would zero in on her quarry, play coy and catty with him and sometime during the course of the night, will establish WeChat/QQ/Telephone number contacts….for her to follow up on – whether that same night or another day.
SEAJ