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Originally Posted by sheridan
With my very few trips there, that's exactly what I saw! The bao deals are indeed active! they are mostly taken by the locals, hongkongers or those who stationed there.
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Just want to pen a few thoughts on this bao subject.
With bao deals, I can think of so few pros and so many cons
PROS
1. KC feelings, If genuine, this is indeed priceless. A commodity that all punters here to the last man I dare add will die for. Just remember the emphasis is 'if genuine'
2. Exclusitivity. Again this does wonders to the bao-er's ego. But whether the bao-ee is cuckolding him behind his back, gawd knows
CONS
1. Loss of freedom No bao-ee will stand your hua xin, trust me. Whatever the bao sum. She may be shut up by the obscene moolah. That does not mean she accepts your cavorting around. Worse still, she may play tit-for-tat. Which means your bao stipend is in vain. You may think its reasonable you can play as you are the paymaster. Well folks guess what? Women just dont think like that.
2. No more cheonging, no more variety - This point is related to the above
3. More Expensive - Invariably, in bao deals you end up paying more, not less
4. Taking on her problems - Yes, her problems will slowly become yours. Her family issues will inexorably become yours. Her ambitions, her health, her wants, all will become your problem. So the gong knia in you will eventually ask ' Why am I taking on all these problems? And I have to pay for the honour too!" hahaha
5. Worries about fidelity - And because you are paying basically for exclusitivity, you start worrying when you are way, whether anyone is eating your food. Can send you bonkers if you are the possessive and worrying type.
6. Extra work - And so you start devising a monitoring plan, calling at godforsaken hours on odd days trying to check up on your 'possession,' video-chatting, etc. All unneccessary work.
All these effort - for a piece of arse. Oh well, men are idiots as they say
Above strictly my experience and POV. All opposing/alternative/dissenting views are welcome. But please leave snide remarks,smart arse comments, sarcasm, mockery, ridicule home.
(having said all of the above, less I be accused of duplicity, I must declare that yours truly is currently in the throes of considering not following his own counsel )