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Originally Posted by Superhamsup
Masturbation is a more intense experience compared to Fj for obvious reason, the porn we watch while doing it doesnt help either in our actual sex life.
Excessive or habitual handjob will make one experience fj as less sensitive or not as good as handjob. Esp if ur partner is not as attractive as those porn actress we r used to watch. For myself these two factors contributed to difficulty in cumming while having sex for a period of my life.
What i did was to refrain from any handjob few days before sex.. this and exercise helps alot. Another trick I used to help me cum while having sex is to fantasize while fucking or find that one position that excite u e.g. doggy style.
A good sex partner is very important too.. a good technique executed blowjob no doubt helps alot.
On the other hand one of the good benefit masturbation bring (at least to me) is that I am able to last much longer in sex with regular handjob, i masturbate almost everyday on those days without sex with my partner.
The other benefit is ur dick is much harder when fully erected and the chicks love it when u pound them hard.
My advise is stop all handjob for a while and concentrate on the actual sex... u will find that after a while u will start cumming regularly again.. u can go back to your regular handjob thereafter.
For me I love the intensity and fantasizing aspect of masturbation while the physical, wetness, the feel of actual pussy and your partner's ecstasy while you fuck her are incomparable and very different.
I look forward to both nowadays...
Cheers.
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Agree with TS... Same happened to me few years back in between gf... Masturbate until like no tomorrow then when the real deal in front of me, frozen like a fish..
I have a technique though not sure if useful for you.. When I masturbate, I avoid touching the dick head and stroke my shaft like how the MLs mostly do and I do it slowly, even when I'm with a ML, I tell them to go slow and take their time. Those rushing one I'll never return.
And I think NOT watching porn helps because porn is fake 100%. However I recommend fantasizing about your favorite gf/ex/ML/FL/OL...those are the real experiences you had before and you're likely to have enjoyed it and would like to repeat the same good experience
