Nice topic!
Cool to have the wife to start venturing into this lifestyle as mostly its the other way round... Me thinking about the same, to swing with missus but slowly getting more info about swingers experiences and FAQs like how they started etc.
My 2 cents worth - Best advice here is to check out SwingLifeStyle or SLS.com before u guys jump straight into the scene. The 1st time might not be what u guys hoping for. So thread carefully and good luck!