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Just sharing my little experience I had:

1. Why not choose to be with someone who actually isn’t married? You could have better prospects than with a married man. If you loved being pampered there are plenty of people out there who will pamper you.

2. A married man isn’t called one without a reason. What makes you think you can outplay him without taking damage to both physically and mentally. Right now you aren’t getting any benefit at all 吃亏到底.

3. If you loved him there are things you need to be upfront/说清楚 and not love senselessly. In future what will become of you when you are in a dangerous situation right now? Don’t forget you are pretty much expandable now.