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Originally Posted by HonkyTonkyMan
understand your thoughts on this, it scary when you wake up to find out your spouse is no longer your soulmate...not for lack of you trying but from their lack of interest to listen and understand...  |
yes. when you cook and the person doesn't want to come back to eat
or when you arrange dates and the other half is not keen on your plans
or when the children are everything and you are nothing
or when you have a birthday and she says, well you have birthdays every year, its just a day
or when you are sick and they say well you are a grown man, you can take care of yourself.
when you have looked at all these responses towards your relationship, what would you do? 1. Divorce? 2. Have an affair? 3. Continue to suffer and stay married?
I think divorce is an option, but no one gets clear till its very clear, so half way through, you are suffering and staying married.
And some where in the marriage one party or both want to break free or to survive, so they might seek fl/wl or they already met someone. Sometimes the relationship is okay, and suddenly they meet someone in the office, and things change. That's when the affair starts, men and women alike.