[Peacekeeping]

Originally Posted by Penguin23

Having a relationship with a former trans made me question my long-held belief, that sexuality is binary (as what you suggested, by the way you write)

Given her unusual background, my gf has many friends who are like her, and also gays who are almost always bottoms. All her friends regard me positively, since they know that we have been together for more than a couple of years and I can sense that they are all looking for long-term partners who understand their unique situation.

So it is difficult to give an honest and absolute answer to your simple statement on whether I see my gf as male or female. Gender dysphoria does not "flip" you from one gender to another. Until today, there are some characteristics about my gf that are distinctly male despite her spending all her time and energy living and identifying as female.

You are either more yin or more yang at any given time. There will be no attraction if both parties are middle-middle. That is why even for homosexuals there is top and bottom.