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Old 09-01-2024, 03:24 PM
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Re: How to confirm wife is eating outside

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Originally Posted by Shadow_warrior View Post
To be honest, its probably not hard to find out.

Paper cannot contain fire. Its what you do next that is the issue

Do you
1. Also find someone to cheat with, and have a hidden mutual understanding?
2. Do you get divorced?
3. What about the kids, matrimonial home, assets?
4. Do you try to work it out?
5. What is it doesn't work out?
6. Does she want to work it out?

so many issues to consider. What I do think is, women have become so front in the various places, we men have been lesser, in our manliness.
There are so many pro women clubs, events, places, movements, but almost nothing pro men.

Just take it easy, carry on or move on.
Agree and thanks!

A PI told me that they can at most take pics if she behaves intimately in public with another man. Or if they go to hotel which will only constitute "unreasonable behaviour" and not "adultery".

Ultimately, these are not necessary to file for divorce nor would they impact the child custody and division of matrimonial assets. But at least I would know with some confidence that she's really cheating, for a fee of course.

She will be travelling again twice this month. Maybe ignorance is bliss at times I guess unless I can figure a way to catch her.