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I got this prob with my gf too. Kinda low sex drive and penetration always painful and she dun like it. Things are getting better these days, however only limited to bj. Education plays alot to let her know that it is norm that couples enjoy sex. Let her know more stories about ppl enjoying, be it in public places or in the bedroom. My girl doesn't like porn but sexy movies, those done tastefully can arouse girls. Btw, can you make her cum? It's very important that her needs are also covered. My girl never fails to cum, she likes me fiddling her clit so much that she is happy without penetration, kinda sickening though....... Sometimes regret always make her cum without penetration. I should have inculcated that cumming comes with penetration.... sighz... anywayz, to all bros here..... try to start off with right footing and train your girl. Start off wrongly then it's kinda sad for the next few decades of married life. I am still training and slowly let her understand, it takes time, just gotta be patient although sometimes i do flare up because she is not understanding towards my needs. Flaring up helps, of course dun do it to maximum effect, just enough to make a point.

Bro, since you are married with kid, then try to talk to her although it's an uphill task. Think and try all sorts of ways, when she see you trying then slowy she will get the point.