pls advise

[POSEIDON]

hello,

pls give constructive views...
i married with my wife for few months and i very cheong previously - visit hc around 2 times/wk. after i settle with my wife i quiet down alot, but now and then always itchy to go hc again. How?can someone give some advise?
how can i keep myself from going? it is morally wrong to look for other woman after marriage? it is normal if we dont do it again?

[Red_Baron]

Touchy subject here adultery. Technically it is wrong and against the law (especially those of God). But as humans we are flawed so nothing wrong with wanting to bed other pretty girls. Especially since genetically we are designed to spread our genes as widely as possible.

If you don't do it good for you If you do do it, not that big a deal. Remember the 7 year itch. It happens.

Just make sure your heart don't stray and be prepared for the fallout in the event you get caught.

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by POSEIDON

hello,

can someone give some advise?

Should be "can someone give some ADVICE.".

"Advise" is a verb.

[V|ernar]

let your wife control your money~!!

that the best way , it work for alot of married man.

when i am out , i dont carry credit card or more then 50 buck cash.

man = a beasty animal trap in body which like to conquer every single girl , lady, woman , aunty that we think is pretty , cute , nice , sexy.

without money , you going to do the hard way. it natural for man to look for sex and stuff , self control and money control will tame a beast no matter how "super" "wonderful" "charming" in ktv or hc.

end of the route you found yourself twice richer then the unmarried you.

hope it help

god bless

[POSEIDON]

Thanks for the ADVICE!
really appreciate it, now i knw i not alone
the urge is so great - just now at shopping mall alone almost appoarch a pdmm (if not her kid is around) really wish to bring her to a motel and fuck her....sigh.

any sucess story to share?i ready kena caught once liao, i say 80% forgiven. that time really regret but now urge is strong....

[dek75]

Bro , u r not alone.As long as there is no relationship built up with the WL , just take it as u r buying a service from her lor.
I think tis is common trait in guy to 'steal eat' in hokkien.I am no exception also.Just need to know where is ur priorities to the family..

[MaskedRider_555]

It is wrong to sleep around when you are married. You will eventually destroy your own marriage and happiness. You also run the risk of spreading sexual illness to your wife. How about every time you are itchy, have sex with your wife more or masterbate to kill the urge to go hc.

[mike2006]

Originally Posted by POSEIDON

any sucess story to share?i ready kena caught once liao, i say 80% forgiven. that time really regret but now urge is strong....

Brother, you kenna caught once and your wife forgave you? You are damn lucky man. Many i knew who were caught just once, got divorces or seperations. Hehe in the end end up paying a lot of maintenance fees. Worse, when you got kids and wonderful family. I can only say when you are itchy again, think for example if you kenna caught once more and your wife leaves you. It depends on how much your love for your wife. Weighing up, if only the woman is Scarlett Johansson type of calibre, then i think is worth it man. I do know some whose wives or partners who can close one eye but do discreetly lor and not openly. As the sayings go, "Do Anything But Don't Get Caught" also remember to wear protection with others other than your own spouse.

[curiosityz]

Originally Posted by POSEIDON

hello,

pls give constructive views...
i married with my wife for few months and i very cheong previously - visit hc around 2 times/wk. after i settle with my wife i quiet down alot, but now and then always itchy to go hc again. How?can someone give some advise?
how can i keep myself from going? it is morally wrong to look for other woman after marriage? it is normal if we dont do it again?

remember is you HAVE A WIFE NOW

[Red_Baron]

It just occured to me brother POSEIDON, do you know why you cheong in the first place? Is it the sex? Is it the appeal of a naughty school boy adventure? Perhaps your answer may lie there.

All you need now is to find an excuse to stop.