How to help him?

LENS · #1 17-11-2006, 07:26 AM

Guys, a friend of mine has a question. He is not a member here, just helping him out. He book a FL last week. He had 2 shots. For each shot, there was bj with durex condom on and proceed to bonk. 1st bonk, he shot inside the condom. 2nd shot, he didnt shoot. The condom didnt tear and they didnt kiss. No abrasion or whatever. But he still got worry he might get HIV. I think more likely is he feel guilty. Haha. For this case, what are the chances he will get HIV?
i told him 1) the gal may not even have HIV, 2) he was cap for the whole of 2 bonk.

now he say he having slight fever. Haha. Scared him to shit. Any advice i can give to him? Thanks.

p/s: boarding flight soon. Written this @ changi airport for my friend.

V|ernar · #2 17-11-2006, 08:22 AM

althought it not 100% safe but at least it 99.9% safe.

no worry.

god bless

samfan · #3 17-11-2006, 11:22 AM

If a condom was properly used, and did not fail (as described), then the risk of contracting HIV in this single episode of sex is essentially non-existent.

His fever or any symptoms for that matter most likely is the result of anxiety and guilt. Symptoms are the worst HIV predictor. Snap out of it.

If he's concerned, ask him to get tested at the 3 month mark. It would solely be for alleviating his irrational fears of contracting HIV...not necessary from a HIV diagnostic standpoint though.

Ask your friend to check out my post titled Worried About Ur Escapade?! it answers the most common questions he may have!

Gosh, I think I should include a link in my signature too...everyone needs a reminder once in a while!

Stay safe, stay well.

Rof|maoxz · #4 17-11-2006, 01:07 PM

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Your frd really need help meh?

Ask him not to be so paraniod abt the episode.

AfA_hmor · #5 17-11-2006, 02:02 PM

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Originally Posted by LENS

. But he still got worry he might get HIV. I think more likely is he feel guilty. Haha. For this case, what are the chances he will get HIV?
i told him 1) the gal may not even have HIV, 2) he was cap for the whole of 2 bonk.

now he say he having slight fever. Haha. Scared him to shit. Any advice i can give to him? Thanks.

p/s: boarding flight soon. Written this @ changi airport for my friend.

Dear Lens,

Tell your friend, he is being paranoid about infection of HIV. If his condom is intact, no breakage or whatsoever, then he is safe. We got so many people coming down to our ATS testing for HIV when they practise safer sex!

We want those who do RAW to come down to our clinic to test not those who constantly practise safer sex with condoms and feeling paranoid!

Who would be the ones doing RAW and not testing? You know who you are! Come for a test to see, if you do RAW. If you dare to do raw, you should be brave enough to come for a test.

Best regards,
Action for AIDS

http://www.afa.org.sg/thinkagain/think_again_STDs.jpg

Red_Baron · #6 17-11-2006, 02:37 PM

Flu bug going on probably just flu. If he is still paranoid about it best to see a doctor to set his mind at ease. Alternatively a few slaps across his face with a pair of gloves to snap him out of it would also help.

dek75 · #7 17-11-2006, 02:48 PM

Go to DSC clinic at kelantan lane to do a HIV test lor, at the most worried for 1 week on the result rather than keep tinking kana or dont kana HIV for the rest the life.

mike2006 · #8 17-11-2006, 04:23 PM

There's nothing you can do about it but to ask your friend go and test and wait for result for next three months and have a peace of mind. Hehe, i guess many brothers who have slight fever or sick after having commercial sex worry kenna aids. Desires, excitement and urge to cheong but after cheong kenna phobias. That's the cycle cheongsters have to go through.