Caught partner using social web

[jadelady]

What will you do if you caught your partner using a social web that he has never use before, to follow girls profile and when you ask what is that he said its nothing. Or guys, why do you do that? Is it the thrill or the temptation?

I am lost, I never like my partner to use social web to know more girls. I be thinking, why then need to know more girl am I not enough for you? Damn it.

[3Dragon]

Why the insercurity? U can download it and use it as well.

[acidicavex]

confusing you wrote somewhere u also using social website and have a scandal with a older guy leh.

Hmmm... so u should know better when your guy is using it.

Whether why u are good or no good enough for him well only u know and he know. The rest will just be i don't know and speculate stuff.

[SnowLeopards]

Men are horny and visual creatures.

Nothing is going to stop them.

Pierre.

[jadelady]

I have stopping doing what I did after I got into a relationship with my current partner because I treasure him.

[fion.18]

Originally Posted by jadelady

I have stopping doing what I did after I got into a relationship with my current partner because I treasure him.

everyone will need their personal space even in a relationship.

if he doesn't wanna be faithful nothing u do can hold him. if he wants to be faithful, nothing u do can tempt him. just fly him like a kite lo. let him loose when you need to. if it's meant to be he will come back.

hold on too tightly, the line will snap and your kite will be gone, forever.

[johnnybravoyo]

Originally Posted by fion.18

everyone will need their personal space even in a relationship.

if he doesn't wanna be faithful nothing u do can hold him. if he wants to be faithful, nothing u do can tempt him. just fly him like a kite lo. let him loose when you need to. if it's meant to be he will come back.

hold on too tightly, the line will snap and your kite will be gone, forever.

very very good advice. I've always hold onto this kite example if in a relationship.

[purepulp]

Originally Posted by jadelady

What will you do if you caught your partner using a social web that he has never use before, to follow girls profile and when you ask what is that he said its nothing. Or guys, why do you do that? Is it the thrill or the temptation?

I am lost, I never like my partner to use social web to know more girls. I be thinking, why then need to know more girl am I not enough for you? Damn it.

You said that he 'follow girls profile' and to you that is to 'know more girls'…

Firstly, has he got to know the girls he follow in real life? Gone on dates etc? Following girls profile (I'm guessing Tumblr) is pretty common and shouldn't make you feel insecure. An example is that if he watches porn from a certain actress, would that make you feel like he is cheating on you? Would you think that you are sexually inferior to the actress thats why he's watching her?

Women drool after male korean stars too so should men become jealous also?

[acidicavex]

u treasure him than have a good sit down heart to heart talk to him. to see what went wrong.

If he still doing it than u decide what u want to do next the ball is in your hand. at least u try communication and if that doesn't work. Well there is always the button to launch a nuclear arsenal on him.

important

no double standard
communicate
talk
try

all don't press the red button

[nitecrawllerr]

Sometime i see my sister in law watsapp away. Kind of wondering who she watsapp with. Shes working in a bank. Not self employed or doing business. So many friends to watsapp meh?

[bombweister]

Sister

Maybe you can look at it this way

1) look see look see no hanky panky then you open 1 eye close 1 eye
2) look see look see but got hanky panky then maybe you can consider looking into the problem.

I don't know how you are like or how is your relationship like with your bf, but this is my 2 cents worth of advice.

You also got guy friends who will Want to flirt with you. End of the day no hanky panky I think it is okay.

Cheers

[MaraGuru]

Originally Posted by jadelady

I have stopping doing what I did after I got into a relationship with my current partner because I treasure him.

U can't micromanage a relationship. This is bad, one day it will burst off - "POP".
Everyone on earth has its own privacy corner, guys are still guys. If you want your bf to be those guai guai, gong gong type, I think you will find him boring in no time.
I believe sometimes on the street, you also "peek" at handsome guy too.
Also, if you notice, if the girl tell the bf, that guy is handsome and charming, most bf is fine with the statement. But if the guy tell the gf, that girl got nice figure, long sexy leg....the result will be totally different. All because girls get jealous over small thing.

[Cumaster]

Originally Posted by jadelady

I have stopping doing what I did after I got into a relationship with my current partner because I treasure him.

Cant beat them? Join them...

Whats ur wechat id? lol

[hi2u]

Dear sis,
I think the best would be a heart to heart talk with him.
Find out what's wrong, what prompted him to use the app.
Are there issues? Is there anyway to go about handling the issues?

[taureanwoman08]

Originally Posted by jadelady

What will you do if you caught your partner using a social web that he has never use before, to follow girls profile and when you ask what is that he said its nothing. Or guys, why do you do that? Is it the thrill or the temptation?

I am lost, I never like my partner to use social web to know more girls. I be thinking, why then need to know more girl am I not enough for you? Damn it.

Men are like this. You can never keep them from another woman, especially if she is beautiful and sexy. This is despite you being a beautiful sexy woman yourself.